Watching this movie is actually quite frustrating. I think the focus of the director's expression is not to pity the world's mothers, but to persuade not to marry and not to have children. ? As a middle-aged, I am also a mother of three children living in the Netherlands. Because the children are relatively small, I have not had normal sleep and normal energy for 9 years so far. However, life doesn't matter if you are a mother or not. You need money for a house, and you need to spend money on food, drink, and Lhasa. If you don't want to live like a refugee, you have to learn to be schizophrenic. I think this is normal? Because of having children, I have learned to suppress my emotions. No matter how unhappy I am, I still try to pretend to be very happy in front of my children. When I want to explain the story vividly and read with the children in bed, I will always be super sleepy and want to sleep, but even if I accidentally fall asleep for a few minutes, a strong sense of responsibility drives me to get up and go downstairs to start cleaning , work at night. Friends asked me how I managed to bring three children and still work, and I was so happy every day, with unlimited energy. Actually... I'm really tired? I've learned to give up most of my business, preferring less money and more rest. I learned to argue with my husband that we should send our children to full nursery school at least twice a week. I even put my life at risk, forcing my husband and in-laws to share the childcare... Because of the experience, the second and third, I taught the 10-month-old children to be able to eat by themselves, and from the age of 2 to take care of themselves In daily life, my 2-year-old daughter is now able to dress herself, brush her teeth, take a bath, etc. She is not willing to help me. The 5-year-old son has already regarded the housework of cleaning as a pleasure and tried his best to show it. The 8-year-old son can take care of his younger siblings. It all seems pretty good, and I feel like I've raised my kids well. But human nature is always greedy. Seeing those gifted kids, I wondered why the odds didn't happen to my kids so I didn't have to go through the pain of helping them with their homework every day. It's like, I've worked so hard but still can't buy a good house, why do people buy lottery tickets for two dollars and win the jackpot. Extremely angry and helpless. Why do I just go with the flow Become a mediocre person, living a day-to-day life? A life that will never be understood. Life is so painful and happy. I learned to numb myself, and I read bitter love letters in the middle of the night to vent their emotions. When the children were at school, they amplified the music at home, gave up their interests, let their heads empty, and played the piano. My house is messy, my friends always complain to me when they come to my house, your house is too messy... At that moment, I wanted to explode in place. I have already cleaned it every day, but the house is so big, with a large population and a lot of things. No matter how you clean it up, it will still take up so much space, and if you clean it up, it will soon turn into a garbage station. I learned to ignore my friends' complaints, ignore people's cynicism, ignore the messy room, ignore the piled-up kitchen... My husband came home and said; the house is so messy, what's the point of me working so hard outside all day ? Can't even go home and have a place to rest? Regarding his questioning, I threw him a blank eye. If you want to clean up, you clean up. I'm very tired, so it doesn't affect me. If you don't feel well, you are welcome to change your wife at any time. After several years of running-in, arguing with reason, and verifying from facts, he realized the difficulty of bringing a baby, and he also learned to take more responsibility, and clean the room first when he goes home at night. Since it is a marriage of two people, both of them bear it. If you don't want to bear it, you will be divided. It is more difficult to take a giant baby than to take a baby. There are so many complaints and I don’t know where the topic has gone? What I want to say is, if you are in the same bad situation, then please don’t give up, adjust your strategy, let your family share the burden, communicate as much as possible, most people will With a little conscience, I still hope to change, whether it is my husband or my in-laws. A person who bears everything silently, does not know how to decompress himself and find ways to seek help, then... you will be really sad. I wish mothers all over the world to have more sleep and more space for themselves. Regarding his questioning, I threw him a blank eye. If you want to clean up, you clean up. I'm very tired, so it doesn't affect me. If you don't feel well, you are welcome to change your wife at any time. After several years of running-in, arguing with reason, and verifying from facts, he realized the difficulty of bringing a baby, and he also learned to take more responsibility, and clean the room first when he goes home at night. Since it is a marriage of two people, both of them bear it. If you don't want to bear it, you will be divided. It is more difficult to take a giant baby than to take a baby. There are so many complaints and I don’t know where the topic has gone? What I want to say is, if you are in the same bad situation, then please don’t give up, adjust your strategy, let your family share the burden, communicate as much as possible, most people will With a little conscience, I still hope to change, whether it is my husband or my in-laws. A person who bears everything silently, does not know how to decompress himself and find ways to seek help, then... you will be really sad. I wish mothers all over the world to have more sleep and more space for themselves. Regarding his questioning, I threw him a blank eye. If you want to clean up, you clean up. I'm very tired, so it doesn't affect me. If you don't feel well, you are welcome to change your wife at any time. After several years of running-in, arguing with reason, and verifying from facts, he realized the difficulty of bringing a baby, and he also learned to take more responsibility, and clean the room first when he goes home at night. Since it is a marriage of two people, both of them bear it. If you don't want to bear it, you will be divided. It is more difficult to take a giant baby than to take a baby. There are so many complaints and I don’t know where the topic has gone? What I want to say is, if you are in the same bad situation, then please don’t give up, adjust your strategy, let your family share the burden, communicate as much as possible, most people will With a little conscience, I still hope to change, whether it is my husband or my in-laws. A person who bears everything silently, does not know how to decompress himself and find ways to seek help, then... you will be really sad. I wish mothers all over the world to have more sleep and more space for themselves.
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