empathy for some parts

Creola 2022-03-21 09:02:33

Epidemic, study abroad. Can't come back.

Some of what Emily went through also overlapped with mine. So it's very empathetic in some parts. Samsung is the outfit and appearance for the heroine. The face value is online and the heroine is so delicious! No pictures, no truth, I may upload a few pictures later, please wait a moment now! And one star for some experiences that I really empathize with, although to be honest, some plots are unrealistic and some stereotypes just don't agree with me. But I'm not too picky about plot, and I like to focus on the better aspects of a show.

Emily, a cheerful, lively and hot American girl. I was sent to Paris, the romantic capital, for work reasons, but I ran into a wall for various reasons after arriving in Paris. Fortunately, there are a group of good sisters who support her and always play the role of listeners and suggestions, which makes her working life less painful and boring.

Emily, who just came to Paris, is curious about everything in Paris. In her eyes, this is a romantic city full of rich cultural atmosphere, where everyone can develop their own world. Her initial feeling was just like those of us who just arrived, full of curiosity about new things. I want to try everything, that's how I am anyway. But I believe this novelty will not last long, because all the problems will follow after a long stay.

Sure enough, the problem came. American girls don't know any French at all. They encounter all kinds of difficulties in life, they can't understand and understand, they confuse all kinds of French words with English, and they can only wash their hair with the tap because they don't understand French. Zhong was also ridiculed by colleagues because she did not know French. Compared with her situation, I really feel very lucky. At least I don't know anything about English. My English is really enough for me to live in Australia.

In addition to language barriers, the biggest problem encountered when going abroad is culture shock. Emily went upstairs three times because she couldn't understand the meaning of the French floor numbers, so she opened the wrong door three times. On the party occasion, Emily was not appreciated by anyone because she mentioned her work. Her colleagues even looked down on her, thinking that she did not know how to enjoy her work on the party occasion. Let's be honest, culture shock doesn't just make you feel how you can be a joke, it really makes you feel really bad. I used to get into a very embarrassing atmosphere because I said the wrong thing, so I felt very empathetic to her being very American in the beginning, and after being criticized by the boss, I felt it was normal. In fact, sometimes even if you love the culture of this country and you have done your homework, you will still make jokes because of some details. However, Emily is very thick-skinned. Even after making mistakes, she still maintains an upward heart and strives to improve. Here, I also hope that the majority of international students will be thick-skinned, speak more English, and summarize their experience when they say something wrong, so that they will not make the same joke next time. Many times, we also need to forgive ourselves for making mistakes. In the process of studying abroad, I hope you really don't treat yourself too harshly! It is good that we have the opportunity to study abroad! It is really better to be able to speak English boldly!

There's one passage that really stands out to me. Emily is lively, politically correct and open-minded. However, none of the French people were willing to listen to her point of view. Emily, for example, is adamant that women should not be naked to reflect their worth. Others agreed that it was a manifestation of romance. Emily believes that luxury goods should be put on social media to increase exposure and market, but the boss thinks this plan is unreasonable, and even thinks Emily is ignorant. In fact, a lot of times, no matter what the occasion, your opinions are not necessarily heard by anyone. It is also possible that many of your worldview values ​​are different from others. The collision of viewpoints reflected here is also very interesting to me. At this time, all you can do is to improve yourself as much as possible and increase your influence among your peers. Don't give up and doubt yourself because of a little setback. Action speaks louder than the words. And properly stick to your own opinions, stick to your own values, and don't give up yourself in order to cater to others. Of course, Emily's job is to follow her boss and stick to herself, so she has to come up with a way to get the best of both worlds. After that, she posted a sentence on social media, allowing the public to judge whether it is good or bad. I forgot what that sentence was, my memory is not very good hahaha.

The one that touched me the most was when Emily went to invite someone to lunch. She was very enthusiastic to invite others to have lunch with her, and the result was a hot face and a cold butt. In the end, she was alone in the huge and bustling Paris, having a carnival by herself. When she turned around, she saw that her colleagues were excluding her from the small circle. In fact, why not study abroad? You think that you are good with others, but it is just your wishful thinking! Emily's resentment is understandable, after all, she is inexplicably unpopular. I personally think that the reason why a person has traces of his own culture is because he grew up in that country, and if he grew up in another country, then she will also have a connection with that land. If a person wants to grow, he must accept diverse viewpoints, and going abroad to make friends with different cultural backgrounds will also allow you to grow rapidly and allow you to form new perspectives on your own. But obviously, some people don't want to be deeply involved with you. Especially those who are more traditional and close off, they are more willing to be with their peers. However, international students, don't feel that it is your fault that you cannot integrate into them. Sometimes this situation is really hurting and painful, but you will have friends who are more suitable for you! After the long night of loneliness, you will usher in the warmth of friendship! Everyone will be left out more or less, or sometimes we left others out unintentionally, so don't be too glassy, ​​friendship can't be forced.

But it's really good, Emily has two super good sisters. And I met by chance in the flower shop square. I think this kind of situation is more accidental, and it really depends on luck to know people. A good friend not only hangs out with you, chats with you, and sees your parents together. I really like friends like Camilla and Mindy! Always complain, laugh and play with you. Such an unhappy life would be a little sweeter, wouldn't it? I am still looking for such a friend, but I believe I will have one soon! In a foreign country, you really have to have hope for life!

Another detail is that Emily herself is a blogger and likes to post photos on instagram. Every photo she posts will greatly increase her influence. No matter how lonely and homesick she was, and she also endured the grief and disappointment of being dove-free by her boyfriend, she would make herself bright and vibrant. This is life, no matter how low it is, you still have to live it all, you still have to try to control it. Don't let life overcome you, you have to control life beautifully and overcome life! There is another point I found. Nowadays, various P-picture software can make a person perfect. Many times, don't compare yourself with some celebrity bloggers on social media. You don't know how much effort and sweat it takes behind a picture to make an ordinary picture P envy everyone. You also don't know the mood of people behind this picture! Be the best you are and don't compare yourself to people on social media. Everyone is unique!

I had no idea I wrote so many words. Recently, because of some interpersonal matters, I feel bad and think too much. And then Emily in Paris just happened to be on the show and it kind of inspired me. So here are my thoughts. I hope that I can also find my hobbies and work hard by writing book reviews and film reviews. I don't know how long it has been since the last time I started writing. But I'd love to stick with it! I'll probably update this post later with my thoughts on the drama's stereotype. Come here today!

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