The last play was "Wall Street"
The reason why I chose to watch this one, like most people, is because it is one of the 20 movies recommended by business.
Because people are in different stages of life and the current confusion is different,
When looking at the same thing, the angle will be different, and the perception will also vary from person to person.
Regarding this film, my thoughts on "one emperor and one courtier", "how to integrate companies after mergers and acquisitions", and "how to balance career and family" did not impact my thinking.
The only thing that touches deeply is that everyone's life will experience ups and downs. Everyone is running on this marathon road, and you don't need to care about the speed and gain or loss of the moment. The male protagonist of 51 may have nothing, or he may find it back. The male protagonist of 26 may reach the peak for a while, or it may fall to the bottom in an instant. Attitude is very important, and mutual respect between people is very important.
What touched me the most was this sentence-
If life offers you a chance to pretaste it Do not take it
Think of your own life experiences
The last job that paid well was too easy to come by, and it turned out that I couldn't handle it, it was painful to work every day, so I ran away after less than a year.
Tranquility and Zhang Yuqi calmly exposed their weakness to the camera in Riding the Wind and Waves. Because they have never done it and do not understand, they are too guilty and afraid that they will not be able to do it well. It is really too stressful and too nervous.
Li Xiaolai shared his "embarrassment" in the live broadcast:
The first time I gave a speech, I didn't remember anything, and I ended up sadly. The second time I gave a speech, I actually fainted.
sky! It turns out that the queen and the big coffee-level characters are not born so strong, or from calves to big!
And it all started from Xiaobai, and there was such a "darkest" moment.
So what are ordinary people afraid of to begin with? The fear, tension, and anxiety that arise because of not being able to learn are all very normal emotions at the starting line. It is too human to worry that you will not be able to learn, that you will not learn well, that you will not learn well, and that you will end up making a fool of yourself.
But if, like Tranquility and Zhang Yuqi, there is a team, a coach, someone to guide, someone to practice with, and someone to encourage, practice, improve, practice, and improve step by step rhythmically, and gradually over a few months, gradually Turning a cocoon into a butterfly is the best state. Even without talent, it is impossible to dance as well as Meng Jia, but she is already better than most people!
Or like Li Xiaolai, he studied by himself, practiced by himself, found tutors in various books, regarded time as a friend, insisted on collaborative practice for 10 years, and finally became a master in this field.
The 26-year-old male protagonist suddenly won a crown that fell from the world, became the advertising director of a magazine company, and was burdened with very abnormal performance indicators (even the 23-year veteran said that it was an impossible task, Only possible with new magazines).
He had no experience in advertising sales, no one to teach him, and no time to learn and practice. At this time, he realized that he was not ready. It's like, to Ning Jing and Zhang Yuqi who just participated in the show, you have to learn to dance within a month, and you can dance better than Meng Jia, but no one will teach you, even you have to lead the entire dance team to rehearse a show.
At this time, they must all collapse.
Li Xiaolai is good enough, but when he gave his first speech, he set an impossible target for him, and there was not enough time, and he absolutely could not finish it.
So why did the last 26 male protagonists hug the 51-year-old male protagonist, crying and saying that no one has ever taught him anything seriously (lose his father at the age of 4, don't know how to run a family, and haven't met a good one in the workplace? mentor, who doesn't know how to navigate his new position), it was only at this time that I understood all the vulnerabilities he had exposed.
Therefore, a person's growth requires a process, and it is really not a good thing to pull the seedlings and encourage them.
Coming back to myself, it's actually the same.
Although I am 30+, but:
For the first 20 years, I have been in a state of depression, low self-esteem, lack of love, and extreme narrow-mindedness.
Between the ages of 20 and 30, I desperately pursued love, friendship, and family, and finally gained a sense of security.
But in the process, I don't know who I am? What kind of person I want to be, I have been trying and making mistakes.
After the age of 30, I found my spiritual mentor, and what I wanted to achieve, more of a pursuit of self-fulfillment, fulfillment, and spiritual fulfillment.
I am very anxious. The more knowledge I learn, the more I realize that I am lacking. There are so many classic movies, classic books, and awesome courses. I want to learn, read, write, communicate, speak, dance, music, programming. . . . I'm hungry, I want to see and learn, but outside of work, I have a considerable part of my time divided among children, parents, lovers, and various emergencies, leaving little time for myself. When time is short and I perceive that my growth is slow, I am even more anxious.
During this process, I had no serious mentor, and my parents were immature adults who could not help me. Friends from the past, either not in the same city, or have each embarked on a different path, the rhythm and concept have been completely different, the frequency is different, and there is no comrade-in-arms.
Therefore, I can only find a mentor in the book like Li Xiaolai, give myself time, explore slowly, and grow myself.
Of course, I have recently found other ways to join a circle, find people with the same frequency in the circle, supervise, inspire, and encourage each other. On the way of growth, I am not so lonely, and it is not easy to give up. (Wait for home and work in the past two months, this will be my big event in 2021)
"If you want to wear a crown, you must bear its weight", if you are not ready, don't try it lightly.
Of course, if you really want to challenge, it is also a good life experience. No matter whether you succeed or fail in the end, you will gain something, either the sense of accomplishment of the challenge, or the enlightenment of being educated in the first place.
No matter which way it ends, this experience will be invaluable.
It will also make you more aware of yourself, what you want, and what suits you.
come on!
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