First breakup: Cornell scumbag asks Rachel to be her prom partner. The second breakup: Cornell was poor and had no money to pay the rent; the third time he couldn't be together, Cornell's scumbag, he concealed that he was dating Helen; the fourth breakup: Cornell went to New York to study. Marianne's love for Cornell is unconditional, deep and deep, waiting for him no matter how far or near it is. Cornell didn't take Marianne seriously, and repeatedly hurt and betrayed her. Who knew that Marianne was the natural couple that best suited his temperament and spirit. Betraying and hurting her made him unhappy.
On the surface, Marianne's family background is better than that of Cornell, so Cornell should be inferior. Cornell was indeed mocked by Marianne's rich second-generation friends because of her low self-esteem. But Marianne's abnormal family relationship, her rude and powerful older brother and her patriarchal mother made her even more inferior and sensitive, forming a pleasing, even masochistic personality. Cornell's mother said Marianne frangible (or vulnerable?).
In the relationship between the two, Cornell is strong and dominant. Marianne is insecure because of her serious lack of love, and she loves Cornell too much, and she is extremely humble. A boy from a lower class and with much poorer economic conditions will do whatever he wants in a relationship, relying on the social atmosphere of male worship and the girl's unrepentant love for him. This is also a lot of girls with good conditions, but they become the PUA (Pick Up Artist) objects of boys with poor conditions. Jenny to Marcus.
Cornell found that only Marianne could talk comfortably, and only when she was with Marianne could she comfortably be herself, including making love. He couldn't live without Marianne, who was the fetter of his life, so he began to show Marianne. Out of the boyfriend, the desire to protect, and the meaning of respect. In the final analysis, it is also very selfish, for the purpose of him being inseparable from her and needing her.
After winning Cornell's formal, total, and courageous and candid love from her predecessors, Marianne also healed herself, realizing that her life has meaning and value, that she is a person worthy of love (especially self-love), and that she is not. You need to use bondage sex to self-abuse, please men, lower self-esteem, and punish yourself. So it doesn't matter if Cornell is around. Let Cornell go to New York, not because of the temporary expectation of "if the two loves are long-term, how can they be in the morning and evening", but the love has been verified at the moment, I met the most beautiful you at the most beautiful time, There are no regrets in life. When you go forward again, you deserve more and better life experience. Totally selfless. Marianne's love and realm are many times higher than Cornell's.
Cornell's vanity, cowardice, selfishness, inferiority complex...
Marianne lacks love, is sensitive, has low self-esteem, and abuses herself...
Both of them are abnormal people among normal people. Both of them try to be normal people, and they are very tired. Marianne was particularly concerned about whether Cornell went berserk because of her sexually masochistic thoughts that she felt abnormal; Cornell suffered from depression because of her misfit at Trinity College.
In the end, they both accept that they are normal people who are different from normal people, and that the so-called normal people around them are a little abnormal. Barb shares nude photos of his girlfriend and suicide, the female economics teacher wants to go to high school students Cornell, the exclusion and bullying of small groups in the school, Mariana's mother thinks of a man, Mariana's sloppy brother, Paige proposes 3P, Marianna’s two boyfriends used sexual abuse to cater to Marianna to achieve her goal. Marianna, like an Indian boyfriend, hangs out in various clubs all day long, treats club activities as a meal, and thinks that Nazi speeches are okay; Marianna’s male boyfriend The classmates rudely interrupted Marianne's normal speech; the only normal chubby girl, Joanna, is a lesbian...
That's why the show is called Normal People.
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