It's just too many words.

Abbie 2022-03-21 09:03:26

A peep from a person who is almost 30 but is far from marriage: it seems that the "rulers" of both parties before and after marriage are different. Values ​​before marriage: appearance, knowledge, wealth, character, etc. After marriage, that's not all. The crisis from marriage comes from the uncertainty of the unknown "ruler" after marriage (age, career, life changes, sexual needs). Consistency does not necessarily equal matching, and some gaps are large but it is easy to achieve consensus) These value judgments often have differences between men and women, and these problems can only be revealed after marriage. Many people face such problems and are bound by the three forces Author: children, family, money, social morality; and can't escape from the so-called loveless marriage, people who don't care about these three kinds of people get divorced easily. In order to be able to discuss more, the movie sets a good background for the male and female protagonists, so that any problems that will become a big problem in other families are shown one by one in a 5-hour work. Also looking for answers along the way, although the story as a whole can look a little weird. The TV version is really more suitable for watching each episode, or even a few paragraphs and a few paragraphs are good. (The language scum is stunned by the summary of the story in each section, when will I be able to have this ability to summarize. There is no one watching this kind of movie in the middle of the night!

There are no parents and children in the movie, no pressure from wealth, no moral constraints, and they can speak freely. Two people can combine with suitable appearance, knowledge, wealth and family. However, when it comes to parents, family, children, sex, and life, the use of gasps, body movements, and suppressed emotions in the film shows the difference between the two and the difference between men and women.

Sometimes there is a panic among adults: being stripped naked by others. Be stripped of yourself by a lover. Stripped of self. He became a child without clothes, surrounded by the harmless laughter of the people around him, unable to breathe.

Love and marriage should not be so scary, maybe Bergman is out of breath, and I have to show it all for you to see, this is called artistic pursuit!

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  • Marianne: I felt inadequate at work and at home, and I was a washout in bed too. I was hedged in by all the griping and endless demands! Goddamn you! Was it so strange that I used sex for leverage? I was outnumbered, having to fight you, both sets of parents and society! When I think about what I endured, I could scream! I tell you this: never again! You sit there whining about conspiracies. Well, it serves you right! I hope you'll have it rammed down your throat that you're a useless parasite.

    Johan: You're being utterly grotesque!

    Marianne: So what? That's what I've become!

  • Marianne: Sometimes you ask such goddamn silly questions.

    Johan: Sorry. Are you angry with me?

    Marianne: I'm not angry, but I'm on the verge of tears. The trouble with me is that I can't get angry. I wish that for once in my life I could really lose my temper, as I sometimes feel I have every right to. I think it would change my life. But that's not the point. You spoke earlier about loneliness. That bit about being strong on your own. I don't believe in your gospel of isolation.I think it's a sign of weakness.

    Johan: What's wrong, Marianne?

    Marianne: It's so... humbling.

    Johan: What's humbling?

    Marianne: I think about you... and I think about myself and about the future. I can't see how you're going to cope without me. Sometimes I think in desperation, "I must look after Johan. He's my responsibility. It's up to me to make sure he's all right. That's the only our lives will be worthwhile."

    Marianne: I don't believe people are strong all on their own. You have to have someone's hand to hold.