A sm popular science film in a qs film coat.
The following only represents my personal understanding of the film.
Lee is a girl with a lot of sadness due to family influences. So I learned to self-harm from a young age to divert attention and relieve stress.
Grey is a lawyer with a peculiar fetish who struggles to control his desires. I often feel guilty.
All about self control.
Every time Grey throws away the red pen I find it a form of self-control and self-punishment.
Lee later said that Grey was suffering. Because what Grey wants is a 24/7 partner no woman can accept his special plus his self-control seems to be tortured every day. Usually I can only engage in the flower luck movement to vent. The appearance of Lee made him try to open it again (controlling behaviors such as red pen and circle), but he would automatically shut it down (crazy running and fitness no longer criticize Lee). Grey is afraid of hurting others by being selfish.
All about consent.
Lee went from self-mutilation (everyday) when there is nothing to make her happy in life to being happy after being noticed (enjoy) being abused is a kind of personality sublimation. I almost cried. Like Grey said you've grown up. Started to wonder if Grey was in PUA Lee. After seeing it, I found out that Lee is a person who likes to be controlled and cared about by him. Plus Grey is also very careful to do anything that isn't too regular with the consent of the other party rather than violence.
These two are really attentive and in awe of each other. It is a form of attraction and a manifestation of love. (don't spray me)
The premise of gaining respect from others is to respect the wishes of others.
Later, Grey still didn't dare to take that extra step, burning the photos and throwing the red pen again. Lee also used this cooling-off period to experience different forms of sm. But in the end she finds that only that specific person can bring her happiness no matter what. So she followed her heart and went to him to prove her "voluntary and happy" with practical actions. Grey finally accepts Lee, letting go of all the baggage.
The last two people share each other's stories that part is too sweet to say. In fact, as long as love occurs in any form, it is very touching.
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