This film tells us at least 3 truths that can be circulated for at least 200 years:
1️⃣Women are really easy to be attracted by ? and bad men, the two are more than the latter;
2️⃣ It is really important to live together before marriage to verify whether the other party is suitable for a lifetime;
3️⃣When a woman is talented and rich, isn't it sweet to be single? !
This is a work that truly embodies (universal) women's rationality, impulsiveness, blind spots and reinventing the process of self-cognition in emotional choices.
Miss Everdene said at the beginning that she was looking for a man who could tame her, otherwise she would only accept a marriage without an object. The whole film has been running through this sentence.
She first fell in love with the aristocratic superstructure character Mr. Boldwood at first sight. Compared with the current social atmosphere and her original living environment, this was indeed the object of her admiration, but it turned out that he failed to put this The admiration from the woman is prolonged, and the woman she likes cannot be liked. Without the premise of right and wrong, the man also has certain responsibilities. In general, this is at best a by-product of teenage feelings, a detective response to high concentrations of hormones. Then he took an unfair choice, which can be described as a "chaos and abandonment" in the name of women's freedom of choice. The unfortunate consequences of this relationship that died as soon as it emerged were actually endured by Mr. Boldwood, who loved sincere and humble (probably the hunter gave up the prey, but the prey fell in love with the shotgun).
But the one who ended this admiration was Troy, an ex-military playboy with a bad attitude towards life after losing the love of her life. Maybe she was actually bowing to the weakness of human (female) sex. She has money, self-protection ability, and a little knowledge, so what can hit her instantly at this time is to bring her the physical and mental pleasure of adjusting her life. She quickly and accurately grabbed the man who made her feel this way, and was completely dazed and explained her property. (When she refused the marriage proposal for the first time, she said that she did not want to be the property of any man, but in the end, that man married her only for her property. Is marriage really a means of determining the ownership of property?)
Finally, after a long period of close contact, she got to know Oak and determined her emotional tendencies. First of all, Oak has the pursuit that Miss Evendene wants in her bones, being able, considerate, sincere and firm, which she herself may not know that she is pursuing; then, in the conflict and reconciliation again and again, Oak shows these good qualities , collided with ME's pursuit and sparked a spark; finally ME broke free from the cage of fixed impressions and ran towards love. In fact, they are essentially the same kind of people. The magnetic field is right, but they haven't found the frequency of communication. Oak first discovered it, but ME has not yet. Fortunately, in the end, he was able to sort out the interference and find each other. (But not all long-term companionship can be exchanged for a successful confession. Low-quality companionship is good in this modern society. It is a spare tire. If it is not good, you will be accused of harassment at any time.)
Oak asked with his mouth the first time he proposed, and the last time he kissed. So in fact, not only ME is growing, Oak is also optimizing himself. He recognizes his own problems when he falls, analyzes ME's preferences, shows her his usefulness, and proves that he can be relied on by her and worshipped by her. I love you is a fact, but how to be loved by you is the problem, I have everything you want, but how to be discovered by you is the problem. After all, love is just a matter of supply and demand.
Still can't help but complain: If Troy really loves Fanny to the point of sacrificing love, he can't wait until the sunset returns to the mountains and the sky and the earth merge? !
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