In the first third of the film, the narration is very logical, and the process of human shrinking is explained in a straightforward manner, with a gap of ten years or one year in between, which makes the plot more realistic and reasonable. There are definitely many stories about shrinking human creativity, but the key is to look at the execution. After shrinking, some human tissue, hair, and teeth are all shaved off, and the villain speaks with a loudspeaker. The details are in place. The villain eating in the restaurant has attracted much attention and reflects the problems of real society everywhere. My favorite scene in the movie is when Paul and his wife decide to shrink together, and their friends say goodbye to them like they're dying. When a couple made a major decision together, the wife temporarily regretted it. After leaving Paul, she called Paul at the airport and hoped that he would not hate her. She even said I let you down so I feel bad .I realised I was just doing this because I was trying to make you happy and I should've been thinking about myself .(Although this idea is not wrong, it is best to make the other party happy when making a decision without compromising yourself, otherwise there will be a Resentment and then the two of them are unhappy together)
Then Paul said think about yourself? you know you haven't even asked me how I am? you know what I been through today? Couples who go to school and work in different places, we actually can’t empathize with each other, of course, it may be much better to live together)
I feel that the lines of their quarrel are very typical, that is, they are not a community of interests, not us, but two independent individuals,
couples should feel connected. While respecting each other as an independent individual existence, accepting that the other party is not completely their own, they also consider each other for the sake of each other)
Anyway, I wrote it for myself to say something off topic,
In a relationship, the most taboo is probably to take the other person's love and kindness to oneself as a matter of course, without gratitude, so that you often ask for and only ask for. To respect the other person as an independent individual, he always has the right to choose to be good or bad to you, and always has the right to choose to love you or not to love you. What we can do is not to criticize, but to be considerate of each other, to understand as much as possible, to be better to each other, and to make him feel loved, trusted, and appreciated. A friend once told me that marriage is against human nature, because there are times when people want to be alone, and there are times when they don't love each other. I agree with what she said, but I don't think marriage is against humanity. It is against humanity to always ask the other person to love me very much. The other person's emotions are good sometimes bad, and the other person is not a perfect one for me The designed program just happened to meet a real person with a little rationality. Two strangers, from crush to Like to love to love forever.
I have always said some pessimistic words that are beyond my head before, and I will not say them again in the future.
I said before, how can two people be together forever?
Alf said why not
He firmly believes that it will. He also said before that Little Potato and Little Penguin will be together forever. He said happily as he lay in bed and videoed me.
He believes that as long as there is love, all our problems can be solved, and only one problem can be solved at a time. He also said that if he is poor, he can be very happy, he can't order takeout, he can cook, he promises. No quilt, he can be my quilt, he finds it sweet.
I really feel like I need to tell him that life is still long and I know we haven't been good at something yet, but we will.
We are still young, we need some time don't we.
I also sigh that I have too little contact with the society, and the understanding of love comes from friends around me, social media with brainwashing and extreme descriptions such as Douyin Weibo public account (it’s not fucking love or someone else’s love, I’m sour) , if it is not a film and television work (the same is an extreme description, either pure white or covered with lice), it is better to watch a lot of documentaries (but documentaries are not equivalent to real life, they are still editing, mixed with subjective emotions of personal emotions product.)
Go out of your own world, see more, learn more about other people's lives, and contact less fragmented information, and don't take art seriously, living in a demanding life that does not exist in perfection.
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