Due to the busy schedule, this review may not be so perfect, but I tried my best to bring you a little sweetness in a plot that seems to have fallen into a cliché. Actually, I think these two episodes are not another abuse, but a new starting point for the interpretation of what happiness is.
【Happy Sharing】
After finding love, meeting love, and admitting love, Wen Gangtai and Gao Wenying's love went through big twists and turns in the elder brother's incident. There is no way to leave Gao Wenying, everything about her worries him, especially her safety. He frantically searched, hugged eagerly, and even in a fit of rage, he wanted to go to Pu Yulan to settle accounts like Gao Wenying, but Gao Wenying misunderstood him in Wen Gangtai's usual way of doing things, and when he left angrily, Wen Gangtai Cai Realizing that Gao Wenying had already accepted him and his brother as a family for a long time, but he only knew that he loved Wenying, and when he was happy, he would tell his happiness, but he did not allow Gao Wenying to enter his life. A selfish ghost who only knows how to take pleasure out of love.
So Wen Gangtai finally unloaded the burden, kissed Gao Wenying indifferently, and explained the pain and the reasons why he couldn't abandon his brother. After sharing the pain, it is not so painful. He appreciates the happiness of being taken care of, and the sense of release after sharing the pain. He doesn't need Gao Wenying to fully understand his pain, he just needs her to be by his side.
Love is not the same as happiness. To love someone is not only to share happiness, but also pain. Learning to share pain is the first step to gain happiness.
【The trouble of happiness】
Sharing pain also means causing trouble for others, and if a person is willing to accept these troubles, willing to be your strong backing to solve problems for you, if you trust him, then learn to ask others for help, because we can't be superhuman, Able to solve all the problems and troubles in life.
So Wen Gangtai not only shared his pain with Gao Wenying, but also asked for help like the dean, asking him to help his brother overcome the fear of butterflies, so that they could live a peaceful and normal life. Since he learned to face difficulties without escaping, he can lead his brother on the road of happiness together.
When Wen Gangtai was overwhelmed by his mother's incident again, he stopped being the earthbound spirit who lost his soul, but cried out all his accusations of unfair fate like the dean, and the grievance of the shark mother, which was unbearable. For his own selfish happiness, his brother's guilt towards his mother, and his desire not to want Gao Wenying to suffer this kind of tearing pain, he showed all the pain that made him unbearable to the dean, eager to get from the dean. He was comforted, and also hoped that the dean could give his soul an outlet again.
So don't be afraid to cause trouble for others, that's the first step to trusting others, learn to share the pain and trouble others, and when you are lost, you can find the way to a happy life from others.
【Needed happiness】
Sharing pain and inconvenience to others is not necessarily a burden but also a needed happiness for the party who accepts the pain and trouble.
Li Xiangren was willing to be slapped, and Zhu Li, who was drunk, made a mess of the car, because he was the one she needed when she was lonely. This allowed him to understand this lovely girl more realistically, and not put on airs in front of him and be his true self. What Zhu Li gave Li Xiangren was the innocence he had been looking for in countless blind dates but could never find it, which made him willingly accompany Zhu Li to heal her love, waiting for her heart to come out and walk towards him, He is also doing a more real self by her side, and being needed is what he understands is love at first sight.
Zai Zhu followed for many years and could not leave Wen Gangtai, because he was the only person who was needed by Gangtai. Maybe some people would think that it was not worthwhile to be needed this unfairly, but for Zai Zhu, this will be hidden in the heart. The friend under the copper wall and the iron wall, every time he is called to accompany him, he will feel that his heart is one step further from Gangtai's heart, and he has made the matter of opening Gangtai's heart a part of his life. a goal and value. Seeing Wen Gangtai's heart grow up step by step from a child, just like parents watching their children grow up, there may be a loss of friendship being shared, and there may be the pain of parting, but it becomes more and more painful to watch. A friend who is more and more complete and smiles from the heart grows into a beautiful appearance. What he gains is more of a kind of achievement and satisfaction of companionship. Being needed is his motto of dedicating sincere friendship to a person.
Wen Shangtai was actually the one who grew up the fastest in the happiness of being needed. From his younger brother's resistance and complaints, he realized that being a person can take the initiative to ask his younger brother if he has eaten, and use his accumulated money to invite his younger brother to a high-end meal, like It is a very fulfilling thing to take care of a younger brother like an adult. From Gao Wenying's words "I want a brother like you" from the bottom of his heart, he realized that although he is not perfect, he can still Bringing the happiness of others to rely on, when he followed the example of his younger brother to take care of and appease the sick Bi Weng veteran, he grew from a cared person to a person who can take care of others, which made him feel excited and satisfied. The happiness of being needed has made Wen Shangtai grow again and again . His growth is amazing. Although he is still afraid of butterflies, his courage to face the pain and not let himself be trapped in the past is very powerful.
Of course, it is not only Shang Tai who has grown up, Wen Gangtai and Gao Wenying are also growing up together. Wen Gangtai not only needs Gao Wenying's company, he is more eager to take care of Gao Wenying's lonely soul. In Gao Wenying's frank and radical need, Wen Gang too learned to let himself say that he loves to cry, learned to do what he should do at this age, learned to tell his brother that he doesn't want to be bullied by his brother any more, and wants his brother to take care of him. , The two wishes that have been realized seem small, but that is his pursuit of happiness, living an ordinary life, and having a warm home is enough. Although the wish to meet the love of a lifetime at a certain age can only be done in a dream, this beautiful dream is something that many ordinary people have not been able to achieve. Even a dream has already made Gang Tai involuntarily happy. Laughed.
While letting himself grow, he also learned to help his brother and Wen Ying grow together. Seeing Wen Ying becoming more obedient, sensible and well-behaved, watching her brother becoming more courageous, independent and strong, Wen Gang knows too much, and is not needed by Wen Ying and her brother. A burden, but evidence of his growth as an adult . In this way, the three of them relied on each other happily , walked forward hand in hand, warmed the icy castle, melted each other's hearts, and became the most authentic selves.
Although Wen Gangtai will feel lost because Wen Ying and his brother are self-sufficient, you say that I answer no one, although he is still not able to adapt to Gao Wenying's too active coquettish hugs, even though he is dreamed by Gao Wenying's too simple mother It made me laugh and cry, but they became more and more alike without knowing it. Even if they quarreled, the three of them became more and more like home. That kind of happiness made Tianluo's mother jealous, and Zaizhu was often jealous, but no one could bear to break the beauty of happiness, and even took the initiative to act as supervisors to maintain their happiness, which made Zaizhu make small reports.
Being needed is always sweeter than harvesting happiness. Being a needed person is the highest value in life.
【Happy home】
Although Wen Shangtai is an autistic patient, there are facial and language barriers in the perception and expression of emotions, but it does not mean that their hearts are empty. They will convey them through painting, music and other carriers. A rich inner world, and that world is extremely pure and beautiful, is what happiness looks like.
And the pursuit of each of us in life is actually to have a happy home, which can carry all your past, present and future, and accommodate all your joys, pains and defects. Many, many times, the grievances, exhaustion, and despair that we can't release outside, we can vent when we get home. Home is the place to accept our imperfect side.
Gao Wenying longed for home. Even though she was tortured by her mother, she still longed to see her mother who could come back alive, because she couldn't bear to see her father go crazy when she saw her, and she couldn't bear to see her father dying. She chose She no longer accompanies her father, who is counting down to her life, not because she doesn't love her father, but because she wants to keep the best side of her father in her heart, and in her heart, she leaves a happy home for her parents.
What Wen Gangtai fears most is watching his loved ones suffer, but fate is so ruthless to tease him, he can't bear Wenying and his brother to see him in pain and push them away and run away from them, but because they became a family, Both Wenying and her brother chose to wait for him to tolerate him. After the painful struggle, he still chose to come to Wenying and her brother's side.
The past is the past, and the uncertain future cannot be the reason for today's pain. When he went deep into his inner world to find out what he wanted, he realized that he should not ignore everything he had at this moment, but should Cherish these two most precious people, and beside them is the happiest home.
In fact, it doesn’t matter what life is like, what matters is how you look at life, what matters is whether you keep a heart to explore happiness, life is difficult, but don’t forget to smile, try your best to find the little things in life Drops of happiness, then life will definitely lead you to yearning.
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