Conflict level

Megane 2021-11-13 08:01:24

"Story" excerpt.

There is a seemingly simple but complicated scene in "The Cramers"—【French toast scene】.

Among them, a turning point is made on the complex level of three values:

a. Confidence (inner conflict)

b. The child's trust in the father (personal conflict)

c. And the sense of worship and family survival (extra-personal conflict)

Inner conflict

At the beginning of the film, Kramer discovered that his wife had left him and his son. He endured the torment of a kind of inner conflict. On the one hand, it was the suspicion and fear of being helpless, and on the other hand, the male arrogance, thinking that anything a woman could do was easy. At the beginning of the scene, he was full of confidence.

Personal conflict

The son was hysterical, afraid that he would starve to death without his mother cooking. Kramer tried his best to calm his son and told him not to worry, his mother would come back, but we had a good time before mother came back, just like camping outside. The child wiped away his tears and believed his father's promise.

Extra-personal conflict

The kitchen is like an alien world to him, but he enters the kitchen as a French chef.

Kramer reported his son to the bench. When his son said French toast, the breakfast hell opened. The excess cooking oil on the frying pan, the unregulated fire, the cupboard that was turned over, and his son verbally argued. In the process, I stubbornly beat the eggs with a coffee cup, but many of them reached outside, and there was a sticky egg everywhere, and my son cried.

The result afterwards is conceivable. There were graffiti-style oil stars, milk, egg liquid, and bread scattered everywhere, and the father and son were scalded until Kramer grabbed his son’s arm and pushed the door out, “Let’s go Restaurant bar".

Kramer's male arrogance was overwhelmed by his fear, and his self-confidence turned from positive to negative. He made a fool of himself in front of the frightened child, and his son's trust and admiration turned from positive to negative.

He was defeated by a kitchen that seemed to have life, and received a heavy blow. There is almost no dialogue in this scene, just a simple act of a man trying to make breakfast for his son, but it has become one of the most memorable scenes.

A three-minute scene in which a man clashes with all levels of complexity in his life at the same time.

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Extended Reading
  • Emmanuel 2022-03-26 09:01:04

    It's so touching. I actually cried at the end. Dustin Hoffman's acting is so good.

  • Deonte 2021-11-13 08:01:24

    The lives of the two began with a mess of French toast, with ordinary and trivial fragments intertwined with each other: the phrase I love you softly after being awkward with each other, and telling the night of his childhood memories, he still carries it in his arms. With milk marks, they announced the end of their lives. In the sunny afternoon, their lives unexpectedly restarted with a French toast with tears in them. Karama's affection for Karama and his father to his son was such an ordinary but touching affection.

Kramer vs. Kramer quotes

  • [first lines]

    Joanna Kramer: I love you, Billy.

    Billy Kramer: I love you too, Mommy.

  • [last lines]

    Ted Kramer: Listen why don't you go upstairs and see him and I'll wait here.

    Joanna Kramer: [wipes the tears from her eyes and pats her hair] How do I look?

    Ted Kramer: You look terrific.