EP9-10 episode review - such as the love of the net to save, support, change, and create the perfect self

Cary 2022-03-29 09:01:10

I thought I had done my best in the last drama review, and this week I will face the embarrassment that I have nothing to write about, but I was wrong. After the hardship, after watching the detailed product repeatedly, I unknowingly wrote so much again. The summary of the little spirit is that no scene is wasted, no expression is superfluous, and no sentence is nonsense. ! !

【One Net】

Family, friendship, and love, there are three emotional points around everyone. The lack of any one point will cause a person's unhappiness. Each emotional point is a different color. Love is red with enthusiasm , friendship is yellow with vitality and warmth , family love is clean and eternal blue . The mixing and superposition of the three primary colors creates a colorful us. There is really no way to rank the emotional points. The three emotions are like three lines pulling you, and you can't form a solid triangle if any one is broken.

Gao Wenying lacks everything, she is just an island, and because she has not tasted the beauty of any color, she confuses darkness with black with red, yellow and blue. One is a bottomless black hole, the other is a perfect product. The black, which is full of colorful colors and carefully matched, also represents solemnity and nobility, and is the ultimate beauty. Gao Wenying began to adjust her emotions after meeting Wen Gangtai, hoping that she can match the perfect black and happiness as soon as possible.

We have been balancing the three emotional points of family, friendship, and love all our lives. Excessive pull from any party will make us feel unbearable. The line of love and kinship bound Wen Gangtai's freedom, because he dedicated his childhood because of his special brother, and because of the psychology of redemption, he donated his self, hands, feet, body, and even soul. He tied everything with his brother, why? Because his brother only locked him into his heart, and if he wanted to escape, he would have to break his brother's tight heart, which he couldn't bear to do.

He probably took on the burden of the family at a young age. He refused all contacts with others out of the protection of himself and his brother. Except for one Jae-soo, there is no one else in his life, which is also invisible. This caused his brother's unopened heart to become even more closed, leaving him and his brother alone in the world. They became the only people who could rely on each other in their lives, and the elder brother he protected never grew up. He took care of the big child as a mother, but how did he ever grow up? Who can give him comfort and warmth? The protection he knows is to escape all dangers, and the relationship between people he understands is the entanglement and entanglement. He will always carry it by himself so as not to cause trouble to others, but he does not know how to reach out for help, how to burn the candle of himself alone Possibly warmer than the support and strength of holding hands?

If you want to be happy, you must weave family, friendship, and love into a web that can support yourself. In addition to the connection between yourself and emotional points, each emotional point must also establish a straight line connection. Maybe this sentence is a bit difficult to understand, but this is how Julie's mother weaves a happy net for her child. She not only loves her children wholeheartedly, but also brings her children's friends home to feed them like her own children, unravel their knots, and give Nanjuli more partners to talk to. At the same time, she also gained more happiness from the different tastes brought by her children.

She accepted Li Xiangren who fell in love with Nan Zhuli at first sight, not only because of Li Xiangren's ability to make a career at a young age, but more importantly, his sincerity for Zhuli, let him help Zhuli get out of the shadow of lovelorn. She said that she should treat Li Xiangren well because she gave Shang Tai the opportunity to be independent, but at the same time she also pushed some reliable friends for Li Xiangren when he was down, so that Zhu Li's love and friendship also became brothers, maybe they It may become the backbone of Lee Sang-in's comeback. She couldn't make Gang Tai her son-in-law, so she made him Zhu Li's friend and her own child. She couldn't help but hate Wen Ying who had hurt her child, so she became Wen Ying's mother, paving the way to save her daughter's friendship. She is really great!

All the people in the net are constantly establishing the connection of their own three emotional points in the big net woven by Mama Zhu. The stronger and happier .

【A person】

Everyone is an independent individual, and all the rules of action are based on their own feelings. Say what you want to say and do what you want to do, so as to be comfortable, happy and happy. And a person is also destined to be a lonely individual, an individual who cannot be judged by black and white. Everyone is a community of good and evil.

People use kindness and kindness to make themselves no longer lonely. Tianluo mother Guangshan accepts people who have nowhere to go. At the same time, she also gains more warmth and love from her children, so that her life is no longer so lonely. Kindness is a heart that desires to give love and desire to receive love, and kindness makes people happy.

Evil is more often the weapon we are forced to use to protect ourselves. Gao Wenying wrapped her fragile body with gorgeous clothes, and used the evil she pretended to block all those who came to her, minimizing the possibility of being hurt. Shang Tai's evil is the self-help of a special person who wants to be with a lonely life. After shouting with lies, there is also an escape that would rather suffocate himself than face his younger brother. His lack of sound mind makes him only understand the pain of being hurt. , but do not know that hurting others will hurt yourself at the same time.

Wen Gangtai's evil is an outlet for his own soul in a depressed life, turning his pain into a vicious sentence and an evil thought, escaping the cruel reality for a while, and occasionally jumping out of the water to take a few breaths of fresh air, He still has to be a fish in the water, because how can he live without water after escaping his fate? Destiny is both a bondage and a home. What he should learn is not to break free from fate by jumping out of the water, but to find a group of water playmates who sympathize with each other, so that he can swim and not stop in place.

Evil can't bring people freedom and happiness, it can only bring harm and loneliness, but accept your unique self, accept loneliness, and learn to grow in loneliness, and bravely show both good and evil, and then you can find those who love you. A sincere person who likes both good and evil, you can be true, complete and free at all times by their side, even if you are alone, you can be happy because love has wrapped you up .

【One sentence】

A sentence can sometimes destroy a person in a piercing heart, and sometimes it can save a person with a heartwarming heart.

Shang Tai was ecstatic because of Wen Ying's "best partner" and felt the beauty of friendship, and because of Wen Ying's interpretation of the child who came to the wolf, she understood the loneliness in her brother's heart, and understood that lying is not all wrong and unforgivable , the lie also contains the protection of love and the desire to be loved.

Nan Zhuli once again recognized and accepted Wenying, a friend who was pushed away because she didn't understand her back then, because of the sentence "she is such a strange child", Gao Wenying understood Zhuli's pain because of her "envy", and was willing to use it. A slap to resolve the misunderstanding between each other, and because of the phrase "Happy Birthday", I gained an important day from Mama Julie that she was no longer lonely and helpless.

Wen Gangtai gained a close friend because of a plain language, and because of Tianluo's mother's sincere words "there is no way to abandon your brothers", she experienced a great love like a mother, because the dean said "Hold on, maybe One day your brother will support you" and have the courage to lead my brother forward again. A heartfelt word that brings warmth and enlightenment heals wounded hearts.

And Gao Wenying saw that Wen Gangtai, who had released himself for a short time, was not really free. He still didn't know how to cut off his collar, so she started with Shang Tai and said, "Have you never hated your brother?" , hit the key point of his brother with a sharp eye, instantly opened up the veins of his brother's whole body, and fear poured into his body from his heart.

Shang Tai was injured because of Xiao Gangtai's accusation and escaped anger, but he couldn't tell his fear. Although he grew up with this fear, although he could recognize his brother's sacrifice for him, he also knew that his mother Give him more love. Helpless lies will always be exposed, and the words "to get married" heard from his mouth ignited the bomb.

When he was already weak, when he learned that his brother used lies to coax him, he felt the crisis and fear of being abandoned again. Shang Tai, who didn't know how to communicate, vented his inner fear to everyone, thinking that this would prevent his brother from escaping .

After the explosion, Shang Tai was released. It was Gao Wenying who helped her get out of the sea of ​​misery, but while he was happy, he didn't understand that this kind of behavior of nakedly tearing open a person's e and spreading it out in front of everyone's eyes was the real thing. Shaman is invisible.

One sentence sent Gang Tai back to hell again, with guilt, remorse, helplessness, grief, unspeakable true pain, never such a huge life without love, which made him realize how painful it is to lose someone. , Despair, the loneliness of his brother's closed heart made him understand that his brother's possession of him for so many years is more of a dependence, and the harm caused by an irresponsible curse will not be forgotten and resolved without mentioning it. , A timely apology and confession of sincerity is the best answer to face up to the mistake, but unfortunately, he unknowingly made a mistake for so many years.

Keep warm heartfelt words in your heart, be grateful and don’t forget, spit out the words that bring pain, rub them, and throw them away. The selfishness of making yourself happy first in order to make others happy is called “strength”.

【A love】

In fact, Li Xiangren has always had a true love for Wenying, but it is because of their interests that they are not able to see this love clearly. He is the only one who remembers her birthday. When she is down, she does not lower the standard of caring for Wenying, and asks her to eat high-end food Steak and gave Wen Ying a thoughtful gift, so Wen Ying would not hesitate to wear the necklace around her neck to expel the loneliness in her heart. Li Xiangren used this love to ignite her fighting spirit, and the community of interests only saw each other's sincerity when they were in despair.

Chint and Yalin never thought that they could find true love in a mental hospital. This love helped them gradually get rid of their pain and let them learn to grow up. For this love, they could endure separation and meet again with a better self, so that they could live happily ever after. Go further on the road. Also because Gang Tai guarded this love for them, and always showed a full sense of responsibility to Chint, Chint became Gang Tai's iron fan and came forward to be mad for the nobles.

Jae-soo's friendship with the Moon brothers can be described as earth-shattering, what makes him stick around? In fact, it's Wen Gang-tae's sincere love for his brother that moved him, and because he can become the two brothers' To be satisfied by being needed, friendship is to understand without saying a word that Mrs. Gang will entrust my brother to him. I understand that friendship is a firm "no problem", and friendship is to always be there for you and listen to you at the first time. The companionship of your narrative, friendship is to stand on your side unconditionally to fight for you, friendship is to support all your choices even if you are hurt, and friendship is to accompany you in pain and willingly stay with you.

Once you have moved your true feelings for a person, don't give up lightly, and be responsible to him to the end!

【a heart】

Li Xiangren is sincere to Zhu Li, even a half-way ride of a broken car will give Zhu Li a knowing smile, and the gag feeding under the watchful eyes of a cheeky general can make Zhu Li and her mother feel "my love" I only have you in my eyes." It's brave to admit that you really like it.

It's not that Shang Tai doesn't feel sorry for his brother, he hides his panic and pain because he is afraid of losing him. What he hates is not his brother but his lies. He doesn't want his brother to always take care of him as a child. I hope my younger brother can treat himself as a normal person. He is eager to grow up, but there are too few people in this world who can read his heart. If he can have a close friend, he will not be so afraid of being abandoned .

After the fierce collision, the two hearts that were in unbearable pain were red, swollen and dripping blood, but they broke the heart wall built by the knot. My brother doesn't seem to be so sad, but it's just because he can't express sadness. Locking himself in bed is actually an escape after making a mistake. He understands that he has brought harm to his brother, and he dares not go home like a child. I dare not see my brother.

As for Mrs. Wen Gang, he really experienced the shame of being torn apart from hypocrisy and has nowhere to escape, and because he did have a sinful heart, he extremely denied himself, thinking that all struggles and confrontations with fate were futile , his life is destined to be a tragic existence. He became extremely inferior and small, thinking that he had no right to love.

Fortunately, with the timely explanation from the dean, and the warm teachings from Zhu Li, telling him that it is not terrible to make mistakes, and that it is okay to be selfish, Wen Gangtai has the courage to face up to his own mistakes. Instead of just calling his brother softly outside the door and waiting for him to come out by himself, he took the initiative to walk into the ward after his brother was asleep and held his hand. He silently conveyed his repentance through the palm of his hand, begging for forgiveness, and truly opened his heart and completely accepted his brother, and obtained comfort from his warm palm, and once again abandoned Wen Ying because of weakness and burst into thorns. The pain in the heart doesn't seem to be so piercing anymore.

Sincere apology, sincere desire, let the two brothers understand that each other is the most important existence in life, the two hearts that embraced and cried, and embraced and melted into one, murmured "don't cry" Let Gang know too much, my brother is not the shackles that restrain him, but the harbor he can rely on.

Gao Wenying is really a master at treating mental illness. Although it hurts, she gets better quickly. She is constantly healing her broken hearts, and she knows what binds her. Although she has cut off her long hair, the thorn is still there. Still aching in her heart, who will be the one who pulls out the thorn for her?

【what is love】

Wen Gang Tai has endured for so many years because of cowardice, and is not used to the pleasure of this kind of rebellion. He always feels that he does not match himself, so he has become very abnormal. He was either dumbfounded or stubborn, but he couldn't control the urge to kiss the girl who brought him sweetness after being praised for his handsomeness. Fortunately, Zhang Zi stopped the first kiss that was not fully prepared in time. Not adapting to the vertigo of love.

But they still went to play because of their guilt towards their brother. Gang Tai, who was with Wen Ying, was always happy from the bottom of his heart. When he saw the smiling face in front of the camera, he couldn't help but smile sweetly. In order to inspire Wen Gangtai, Gao Wenying used her sense of responsibility for the patient to keep him, and poured alcohol into him. If she did not use aggressive methods to tempt Wen Gangtai, this snail would not know when it would be able to stick its head out of its shell.

Gradually he understood that it is useless to endure in the face of love, and love does not need to endure.

love

It shouldn't be the fear of hands and feet after the impulse, but the blush and heartbeat of the infinite aftertaste at that time,

It shouldn't be a forced sleepover by racking your brains, but a heart-warming hug after a fight,

It should not be an inner monologue of silent promises, but a brave confession after struggling and persevering.

Finally, Wen Gangtai broke through himself after being himself for a day, holding flowers and kissing his beloved girl bravely.

Love is really sweet and sweet, but it's just a little bit short of uncaring love.

Wen Gangtai, who was hit again by the cruel reality, thought that everything had returned to the original point. Self-denial made him jump back into the quagmire to seek destruction. He didn't even cherish the life saved by Gao Wenying. His soul was in hell. He wandered between life and death, leaving only his body in the world. But in fact, he has been pulled ashore by Gao Wenying, but on the way to find happiness, he has to climb the mountain again.

Gao Wenying felt distressed and unwilling to see Wen Gangtai who was swaying. When Mrs. Wen Gang was only worried that her brother had no time to take care of her, she silently looked at him from a distance. When her love was defined as fate and a dream, she was still trying to find the retention in his eyes. She firmly believed that the splendid love like fireworks left not only the choking smoke, but also the long-lasting disappearance in her mind. The light that does not go. Gao Wenying, who has cultivated a persevering character with the dark for a long time, firmly implements the promise of "never let go".

Fortunately, there is Jae-soo who is taking care of his brother's stomach, the dean who resolves his stubbornness, the head nurse who knocked on his brother's door with gifts, and mother Tianluo who takes his brother's hand home, and everyone is helping Gang-tae. Open up the tunnel that blocks the high mountain between him and his brother, so that they can meet quickly without going over each other's mountains. Gao Wenying took the initiative to give up the trust of Wang Tai, who brought her comfort to her brother, and told him the loneliness that Wen Gang Tai did not dare to talk about with a fairy tale that her brother could understand. The honesty, opened the last kilometer of the tunnel for Monk Tai Gang, praying that time can heal the lover's heart sooner.

As for Wen Gang too, he could not read back, and escaped love out of sight and out of mind. His elder brother's blow did not destroy him, but his worries and thoughts about Gao Wenying tortured him in a terrible way. He didn't dare to see if Gao Wenying was doing well, for fear that he could not bear to leave when he went, and even used Nan Zhuli's feelings to assign Zhuli to take a look at her for him, because he knew that Wenying would at least not push away his former friends, Wen Gang, who is selfish for love, is really too urgent to make this decision. He seemed to be waiting to pick up the drunk Zhu Li, but he didn't actually want to hear some news about Wen Ying from Zhu Li. He couldn't accept the curse of Father Gao's definition of his daughter as a "monster", how could he remain sane when Gao Wenying's life might be threatened.

Yes, reason can never win over desire, love can disappear without a trace without patience, Wen Gang is running wild for love, this time even if he has to go through 9981 hardships, he will no longer back down, Because he understood that Gao Wenying was the end of his road to happiness.

Even if we are not perfect, we are also entitled to love, and it is right to make ourselves better and better for the sake of love! !

The love of the net saves, supports, changes, and creates the perfect self! !

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  • Josue 2022-03-27 09:01:23

    When I first saw the synopsis and trailer, I thought that Kim Soo Hyun was discharged from the army. The first work was a bit old-fashioned, but the first episode was really good. And I hope the heroine can stop such old-fashioned clothes first. Those who step on one star and give praise

  • Christelle 2022-03-27 09:01:23

    Don't blow it, it's really not possible.