Love is the eternal topic of literature, the most beautiful pursuit in the heart of human beings, and the most profound imprint in one's life. In its extremely soothing form, the film tells the ups and downs of the love story of two old men. The male protagonist has a slender, sweet, slightly edgy wife, but he didn't resist the temptation to be around him when he was young - he had an affair with his student and the latter committed suicide for it. After the incident was revealed, the male protagonist quit his job to save his marriage and brought his wife to this snow-covered wooden house and vowed to change his past and give his wife a new life. The wife actually loves his man deeply, cares about his man, and desperately wants to get his love, but the painful blow makes her feel that her original safe, warm, haunted, and perfect home has disappeared. Can't find it. It was replaced by an inner coldness and a prolonged loneliness. Although the male protagonist may have tried his best to care for and comfort his injured wife, the female protagonist could not get out of the shadow of the family until his wife suffered from Alzheimer's disease. It was not until he sent the heroine to the hospital that he saw his wife's long-lost smile and happy and sweet face. The male protagonist, who has regained his broken heart, finally realizes that maybe "letting go" is the real love, and if he loves her, he will see her happiness. The plot of the film is simple and profound. Although it lacks the warmth, romance, and joy of the young love genre, it is more dignified, profound, and desolate, with warmth and a lot of sadness. 'In short, this film is thought-provoking and touching. Consciously thinking. Below I will expand the feeling after watching through a few key words:
1 "Finding" what is so hard in life? Love family is definitely the most important content of them. Everyone is in pursuit of what he likes, what is beautiful, what is ideal. Men and women may pursue goals slightly differently. The goal of men's pursuit may be stimulation, novelty, achievement, and conquest, while women may be looking for a sense of belonging, security, satisfaction, and perhaps even comfort. "I don't think we can go looking for our favorite, I don't think we'll ever find it, all we can do is to handle things properly." of a grudge. Life is inherently impermanent, desires cannot be filled, and it is lonely to follow the pursuit like a shadow, just let it go. The heroine has an unforgettable first love, and it is deeply imprinted in her memory. Maybe it is just because of the disappointment in the past. Maybe the man is not as good as the hero or loves her as much as the hero. Maybe it's just that the desire at that time was not satisfied. Free will was frustrated, and this memory was deeply engraved in his wife's heart like two lines of corridors in the snow. It wasn't until she had Alzheimer's that it became apparent. I think the male protagonist is a good man and a considerate man. He is wrong but he can realize the mistake in time and try his best to make it up. In order to satisfy his wife's hazy love, take care of her, and enjoy the last happiness, he Commitment to the wife of a rival embodies the pure love and selflessness of his love. Admirable and convincing. We believe that with the progress of civilization, more and more people will be able to maintain the love they already have, take care of those who love themselves and those they love while pursuing what they love. No regrets.
2 "Desolate" The life of a person is divided into three stages: the paradise of the young, the battlefield of the middle-aged, and the graveyard of the old. When you get old, you cannot avoid fox loneliness, loneliness, and desolation, no matter whether you have children or not, even if you have a lot of children and grandchildren. In the play, the hero and heroine have no children, and the same is true of the old man and his wife who have children. After all, when you are old, others have lost hope in you, even if they have a glorious past, they will be forgotten long ago. Therefore, if the elderly want to live a better life, they can only let go of what they should. Do whatever you want to do as long as the conditions allow. Don't care about other people's comments and their surprised eyes, because you can no longer be the focus, even if you are an electrician here Lightning flashes don't cause much light in others. Young people should also care about them, care for them and tolerate them, because sooner or later you will be like them. I think social pension abroad is very good, at least there are people of the same age who have common interests and hobbies. Although our family pension may seem warm in form, in fact it often becomes a slander of siblings.
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