Gao Wenying is the most unreasonable heroine of Korean dramas in recent years. Compared with the "good girls" who have become more kind, selfless, and generous because of their tragic fate and poor family background, they have an abused childhood and flawed personalities. , with aggressive, possessive eyes, she is definitely an outlier.
Among the character labels created by the screenwriter for Gao Wenying, one item is "anti-social tendency", that is, "dark personality".
Stealing by hand, deliberately making children cry, rubbing the tip of a knife, stabbing innocent people, making a scene at the press conference, suspected of killing the child abuse father, pushing critics down the stairs, each episode of incidents will bring Gao Wenying's The "reverse" characters are gradually built up, like a slowly blooming "flower of evil".
But it wasn't until the eighth episode that I gradually understood the meaning of such a label. She was not "at the beginning of life, and her nature was evil", nor was she born cruel and unable to "empathize". On the contrary, she was empathetic and possessed a very high The ability to empathize is just unwilling to establish a positive relationship with people that can communicate feelings, unwilling to empathize, and even more unwilling to care about the feelings of others.
Fairy tales are a communication channel she leaves to the outside world and a window for her to express her emotions.
She describes herself as a zombie child who wants not only food but also warmth, a boy whose soul has not grown up after eating a nightmare but still can't overcome it, and a dog of spring who can't be herself during the day and cry at night.
From her perspective, Belle is a captive who was tamed by a beast because of Stockholm Syndrome, the Little Mermaid is a third party who coveted a man with a marriage contract and was condemned by God, and "Xingfu Biography" criticizes the inheritance of the eldest son's monopoly on the property , "The Ugly Duckling" is to say that raising other people's children is futile, and you should take good care of your own children if you have time. "The King's Donkey Ears 00" is to say that others must be behind...
The way she tells fairy tales gives us a perspective, a possibility to uncover the truth.
Then maybe you can understand "The Farmer and the Snake" in this way: if you give in the way you think is right, you will not only get no return, but also may be hurt by the other party.
Perhaps it can be understood as superfluous: just do what is required to be done, and you will not be rewarded if you do more.
Maybe you can understand "Thumbelina" in this way: make more friends, experience more things, and you can only get what you want if you insist on what you don't want.
Maybe you can understand "Red Shoes" like this: When others think you are crazy, you are not far from success.
Perhaps you can understand "The Little Match Girl" in this way. Doing business requires brains, the right place and the right place, and nothing can be earned by virtue of kindness alone.
Maybe you can understand "Nightingale" in this way: your ex will not congratulate you when you are proud, but he will definitely sing for you when you are terminally ill.
It may be possible to understand "The Wild Swan" in this way: even in the worst situation, stay beautiful. And, it's best to keep silent until you have enough evidence.
Maybe you can understand "The Princess on the Pea" in this way, keep your nature, whether it is strengths or weaknesses, it may be the point that you are loved.
"Stories are alive. They don't live in the same way as people, cats and dogs. People live, whether you care or not; dogs live, they try to get your attention, if you don't pay much attention to them. Cats Well, if they like, they're good at pretending people don't exist.
But stories are different: they live in telling. They wouldn't really have lived in our world if they weren't read aloud by a human voice, followed by a flashlight with wide-open eyes under a blanket.
I read a lot of books before, but gradually lost the habit of letting myself into the story.
Stories are very old, as old as human beings, and they are passed down to this day because they are really powerful. Here are some books that will still reverberate in your head long after you’ve been shelved, as both an escape from reality and an alternative fact. So old and so special, they acquire a presence separate from the pages they occupy. Ancient legends coexist in parallel with us. "
Whether adults or children, fairy tales are really the best.
Every adult has a child in his heart, and every child has a future adult waiting quietly in his heart.
A fairy tale is an apple. Some people take a bite and say "eat it", while others bite the core.
How it tastes best, you have to taste it to know.
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