after watching

Ulices 2022-03-27 09:01:23

After watching this movie...

Feelings: I am very moved by the change of the male lead to his wife; I am also very understanding of the female lead's mood.

Expectation: I hope I can learn how to communicate, not say some words that hurt my relatives, and learn to keep silent;

I want to learn how to take care of my relatives/friends and do something sincerely for them.

Some inspirations from the conversation between the male protagonist and his father:

1. Do something sincerely

2. Pay more attention to each other's needs

3. Keep silent, don't get angry

4. Research each other, from elementary school, middle school, high school to university graduate students;

5. Respect hobbies

After watching this movie, I also recalled some things my grandfather said to me:

1. If you want others to love you, you must first learn how to love others. Don't force a reward, there is no end to the comparison.

2. Be greedy and get poor.

3. Less than the previous, more than the next. Learn to be grateful and content. (My dad also taught me how to be grateful instead of just complaining about life; it’s just that my grandfather’s statement made me more convinced because he didn’t accuse me, but gave an example, which made me sound comfortable. For my family of origin, whether it is patriarchal or feudal superstition, I should be grateful to my parents for giving me life, they have tried their best to give us the best life in life, it is really not easy; more Understand, and life will be full of hope.)

To sum up: learn more, and live a hard-won life with understanding and tolerance. If you won't answer a question, keep silent, or just pass by. No criticism, no comment, no guesswork. Learn to communicate more comfortably.

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Extended Reading
  • Gina 2022-04-02 09:01:15

    I cried several times..

  • Delmer 2022-03-30 09:01:12

    Male pig's feet are too hard, female pig's feet are too vase

Fireproof quotes

  • Catherine Holt: What are you doing?

    Caleb Holt: I see you left me no pizza.

    Catherine Holt: Caleb, I just lit that candle. I like the way it smells.

    Caleb Holt: Well, I don't! Did you leave me any dinner at all?

    Catherine Holt: I assumed you were eating with Michael.

    Caleb Holt: Does it not occur to you that there are two people living in this house and both of them need to eat?

    Catherine Holt: You know what, Caleb, if you would communicate with me, maybe I can have something for you.

    Caleb Holt: Why do you have to make everything so difficult?

    Catherine Holt: Oh, I'm making everything difficult? Seems to me like I'm carrying the weight around here while you're off doing your own thing.

    Caleb Holt: Excuse me? I'm the one working out there to pay this mortgage, and I pay for both of the cars.

    Catherine Holt: Yeah, that's all you do! I pay for all of our bills with my salary!

    Caleb Holt: Which you agreed to do. That's fair! Do you not like this house? Do you not like your car?

    Catherine Holt: Oh, Caleb, who takes care of this house? Me! Who washes all the clothes? Me! Who gets all the groceries? Me! Not to mention that I'm helping my parents every weekend! You know I've got all this pressure on me, and the only thing you ever do for anybody is for yourself!

    Caleb Holt: Let me tell you something: you don't know the first thing about pressure. All right, you think I put out house fires for myself? Or rush to car wrecks at 2AM for myself? Or pull a child's body out of a lake for myself? You have no idea what I go through!

    Catherine Holt: Oh, yeah, but what do you do around here other than watch TV and waste time on the Internet? You know what? If looking at that trash is how you get fulfilled, that's fine, but I will not compete with it!

    Caleb Holt: Well, I sure don't get it from you!

    Catherine Holt: And you won't! Because you care more about saving for your stupid boat and pleasing yourself than you ever did about me!

    Caleb Holt: SHUT UP! I'M SICK OF YOU! YOU DISRESPECTFUL, UNGRATEFUL, SELFISH WOMAN!

    Catherine Holt: I'm not selfish...

    Caleb Holt: HOW DARE YOU SAY THAT TO ME! YOU CONSTANTLY NAG ME AND YOU DRAIN THE LIFE OUT OF ME! I'M TIRED OF IT! IF YOU CAN'T GIVE ME THE RESPECT I DESERVE... LOOK AT ME! THEN WHAT'S THE POINT OF THIS MARRIAGE?

    Catherine Holt: I want out. I just want out.

    Caleb Holt: If you want out, THAT'S FINE WITH ME!

  • Latasha Brown: Honey, I agree with you. You gotta get out. He don't deserve you.

    Deidra Harris: You can say that again. A real man's got to be a hero to his wife before he can be to anybody else, or he ain't a real man.

    Ashley Phillips: Catherine, do you need a place to stay? I can't imagine living in the same house as that man.

    Catherine Holt: No, I decided last night that I am not the one who's leaving. He's the problem, not me.

    Deidra Harris: That's right, girl, stand your ground. Make him respect you. If there's one thing a man understands...

    Caleb Holt: [Cuts to Caleb and Michael, discussing the same situation] ... .it's respect. That's the issue. That's the reason our marriage is failing. She shows me no respect at all. And the saddest part about it is...

    Catherine Holt: [Cuts back to Catherine and her group of friends] He doesn't have a clue. He thinks our marriage has been fine for the most part. You know, he probably thinks...

    Caleb Holt: [Cuts to Caleb and Michael] Our marriage has been fine until this year. Now all of a sudden she goes off the deep end.

    Michael Simmons: Do you really think this happened all of a sudden?

    Caleb Holt: I don't know what to think. I don't understand her. She's emotional about everything, she's easily offended, and way too sensitive.

    Catherine Holt: [Cuts to Catherine, starting to sob] I mean, he's so insensitive. You know, he doesn't truly care how I feel, he doesn't listen to me. Even if I say it over and over and over again.

    Caleb Holt: [Cuts to Caleb and Michael] And then she starts nagging me and saying I don't listen to her... or something like that. It drives me crazy. I feel like I'm going...

    Catherine Holt: [Cuts to Catherine] Insane. You know, he doesn't understand my needs. It feels like we are completely and totally...

    Caleb Holt: [Cuts to Caleb and Michael] Incompatible. She's probably whining to her friends, making me sound like a criminal. I can see them all right now: crying, having some sort of group hug.

    Latasha Brown: [Cuts back to the women crowded around Catherine, comforting her, giving her a group hug] It's gonna be OK, sweetie. It's gonna be all right.

    Ashley Phillips: You'll get through this.

    Deidra Harris: We have your back. Whatever you want. Whatever you need. Whatever you need.

    Michael Simmons: [Cuts to Caleb and Michael] So, you think it's past the point of no return?

    Caleb Holt: I don't have a reason to return.