Someone introduced this movie when I was reading, and today I was fortunate to find a resource to watch it. It is really classic, and it also made me admire Hungary, a small European country. Back to the topic, the movie wrote about two weirdos or people in two vulnerable groups: a physically disabled person who lost an arm, and a mentally disabled autistic obsessive-compulsive disorder patient. Because of the common expectation for love, the common desire for love, and the same dream, the fusion of flesh and spirit was finally realized. The movie tells people in its special form that love has no distinction between men and women, health and weakness. It belongs to human nature and is an indispensable part of human nature. When you share love with others, you also gain love and care for yourself. People around you, especially those who are vulnerable.
Here's what I'm saying about my feelings around a few key words:
1 "Real" and "Packaged". The two protagonists in the play are real people in life. They speak unadorned, frank and unabashed, but they are not welcome, because such expressions can easily hurt the listener's self-esteem or affect their external image. It's embarrassing. Most people are accustomed to setting their self-esteem and image as unbreakable bottom lines. Who wants to see people naked? When you tell the truth, you're revealing people's coats. What a shame. But then again, if everyone doesn't tell the truth, how hypocritical is this world, and how can people not get tired of living in this hypocritical world? It seems that when to tell the truth and when to lie is really a very technical thing. The so-called "do not say anything, do not do everything" is the meaning of not saying everything. The most hateful is the kind of person who wraps his ulterior or vicious intentions in beautiful language so that you can understand and achieve your own goals. For example, in the play, the wife of the personnel manager did not ask the heroine to drink coffee. Yell, what was originally going to be unclean was said to be an upright thing, and the sheriff, who said "the meat last time was really delicious" was a compliment on the surface, but it was asking for bribes at the time. Reality does not need to be wrapped, and wrapped is often unreal. This society has never lacked beauty in false packaging but simple truth. There is another point that we should also pay attention to: people who tell the truth are not scary, the most fearful are those who always say good things. Telling the truth may hurt people for a while, and telling lies may hurt people for a lifetime. Whether the wife of the personnel manager or the sheriff, their souls are filthy, and they are the scumbags of society.
2 "Discrimination" and resistance
The movie is full of "discrimination" content, such as the disdain and disdain of the disabled for the healthy, the contempt and arrogance of the gregarious for the loner, the sarcasm and isolation of the so-called aliens of the public, and the rudeness of the civilized people. The condescension and hostility of people, and the disapproval of the young against the old. Discrimination is a manifestation of lack of love, and it is the kind of "ordinary evil" that everyone doesn't care much about. The direct evils brought about by discrimination are resistance, struggle, and endless harm to each other (such as the male protagonist's treatment of the psychiatrist in the play). Arrogant attitude and the reaction of that dog-eyed restaurant waiter). In the play, the title of the male protagonist when he inspects the newcomers is used to persuade people to face the world, especially to the weak, do you feel uneasy in the face of the fate of those cattle? Caring, less indifference, ignorance, callousness, arrogance and prejudice. People may have the same grades and different lengths of life as those cows, but they have the same journey and the same destination. When you demean others, maybe you demean yourself at the same time, and those who treat others as dung will never get very far (psychiatrists and broken heels). Love has no boundaries and can accommodate all things. Water is invisible and moistens all living beings. Love can bring warmth, harmony and peace to the world. Who can be happy in a world that is as cold as snow and muddy everywhere? Lower your body to do things, be humble, control your disgusting eyes, swallow those vicious words, keep in mind the words of Qian Qian destroying bones, and do things that are good for people and harmless. In addition, "The Shape of Water" also expresses this content, and "Parasite" also expresses this theme. Art should speak and call for the weak at the bottom. These works have indeed fulfilled their social mission and won success. And of course.
3 "Inferiority" and "self-esteem"
Usually people think that people with low self-esteem are often their own defects, but it is not. It is often said that no one is perfect, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses in certain aspects, and if you pay too much attention to it, it will often backfire. Strengths, to be self-confident, to treat people neither humble nor arrogant. Just like the male protagonist asks the female protagonist's phone number in the film, if people say no, it's not necessarily because they want to alienate you. Maybe he really doesn't have one. Thinking of the best in everything is called sunshine. If you encounter misunderstandings, you should be calm, be able to explain, and if you can't immediately clarify, don't be in a hurry to let it go. If you need the understanding of others, then you should be tolerant of others first, and take a step back. Don't hide in the shadows when you are hurt, take pity on yourself, feel sorry for yourself, punish yourself, have the courage and determination to admit mistakes and solve difficulties, be good at accepting new things, be good at accepting challenges in unknown areas, and not be afraid of your hands and feet not forward.
4 "Sex" and "Love"
The surface content of the film is the relationship between sex and love, flesh and spirit. The film uses the love of men and women to describe the social love I interpreted above, which is the great love in the world. Of course, the love of husband and wife is also an important content to be expressed in the film, but most people can understand the meaning in this regard. Sex and affection are the flesh and blood of a husband and wife's love, a relationship of mutual coexistence like fire and firewood. Sex without affection is immoral, and affection without sex does not last long. Love that lacks sex is like a pool of stagnant spring water that dries up sooner or later, even if it is barely maintained, it is like a home like a wooden man, and the sex without love is destined to be smoked constantly, the ground is full of robbers, thunder and lightning, you steal me, even if it is close at hand It is also the same bed, different dreams, and strangers. The film uses the male protagonist and the female protagonist to express affection and innocence, and the personnel manager and his wife to express sexuality and no love. Although the male and female protagonists at first had the same expectations, the same desires, and the same dreams, like-minded marriages could have been bathed in the happy sunshine and enjoy the beauty of life, but the lack of sex made each other's hearts like ice and snow. Ruojiruoli hides in the dark. On the contrary, the personnel manager felt that only strong sex could keep his lover by his side, and he was exhausted and mentally exhausted by doing housework, taking supplements, getting mating powder, and being suspicious. In the end, he was looked down upon by women, and he went to the other extreme. Sex and affection are like the right and left hands of a person. Without either one, one will lose sight of the other. Only by realizing the fusion of sex and affection can a family have vitality. Finally remind netizens again. Especially those young people: if one of the two people ignores which aspect one day, ask the other to pick up the other hand like the heroine. Loving someone is not as simple as saying that they love you, it is really The other party puts it in his mind, and if he cares about him, he will remember every word of him (her), worry about his sorrow and loneliness, his loneliness and happiness, and his happiness, and be friends who have the same heart. And remember that as long as there is love, there is no humbleness, Love is cloud, nature is rain, love is thunder, nature is lightning, if love is clear water, sex is the trickle, marriage is the conjoined sisters of love and sex, flesh and spirit, after tearing apart, death, is rundown.
5 Be honest and do things sincerely. Although the male protagonists in the play have some shortcomings, for example, they are all too sensitive to other people's opinions and reactions, and have an inferiority complex, but they are good people, the kind of good people that society needs most now. The biggest advantage of the two is that they stick to their principles, treat each other frankly, and have a bottom line for being a human being, whether they are relatives or friends, and they can reflect on their own mistakes in time and face them bravely to correct them so as to obtain the understanding of the other party, and to others. Don't remember the mistakes you make and treat them calmly. Who can be blameless? Anyone can make mistakes to their relatives and friends. If they try to make up for it like the heroine, who can't forgive? The elderly who do hygiene are also such good people. Such people benefit all things without harming anything. They are all love. They are the glue of this society. No matter how strong or weak they are, they are all angels.
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