Not a diary of a film review.
I saw my own shadow from my mother, and I knew it in many places. "Only insomnia can consume her energy, otherwise others can't bear it." This is just to describe me. Moreover, the three sentences in the dialogue can always be related to other people's experiences and their own experiences; the course of life is recorded based on what song I played at that time as the schedule. I care about others on the surface, but I don't really care, and even more so. It's like a performance that conforms to the custom.
Even if you are indebted to others, you can find a reason to justify it. For example, at that time, his career was frustrated and his state was not good. Can this be called a reason for being indifferent to his family? Of course, some more fundamental reasons are also revealed later. The mother herself has never been loved by her family when she was a child, so she lacks love all her life, even if she asks for love from children who should have given love.
The child is shaped by the mother according to the mother's way, but it always fails to meet the mother's requirements. This state makes me feel suffocated. Fortunately, it didn't happen to me in reality. Therefore, people should give each other enough space, and can't demand each other in the way they want to do everything; a good concern is to pay attention, keep watch, give enough space, do not ask, and do not aim at reward.
The language of love is different, and the language itself is mutual. Express love in a language that the other person accepts, and the other person will feel it better. If the other party does not express it in the way he likes, but in the other party's way, as long as the other party is sincere and does his best, he should see the effort and should not be too demanding. Appreciate the other person's contribution, not blindly ask for it.
The hard part is how to love yourself. Love is not just about enjoying the sacrifices of others, expressing yourself, and putting it into action. Only in practice can you realize the meaning of love.
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