[Letterhead Story] The movie I watched last month has never written about the feeling after watching it. It was really suppressed. I will write about the feeling after digesting it.
This is a self-written and directed drama, which tells the story of her memories of the past little by little after her childhood was hurt as an adult. The name in the film is also the real director's name. At the end, 45-year-old Jenny confronts the scumbag who has won the Outstanding Citizen Award at the peak of her career. You will find that the personal power of reality is too small to change and defend any truth, and the bad guys do not get the so-called punishment, but live a better reality. The only thing you can do is face yourself and liberate yourself. But now there are more brave people, like this director, who face themselves and expose their ugliness.
Recently, there have been more and more news of sexual abuse of minors. Even if it is exposed to online violence, what about moral condemnation? The bad guys are still arguing with their values and theories, and they even get the most unfair legal protection. And the victim, carrying on with the scars of a lifetime, or ending his life.
In the film, when the 13-year-old girl is hurt, she establishes a protective mechanism to protect herself from being hurt and believes that it is love. This is also the method of the perpetrators, making children with unsound minds mistakenly think that they are mature and grown up and can find "true love". Not only will children not take this kind of thing as harm or share it with their parents, but they will even think that they are on their own and own the adult world. When parents do not have more time and energy to take care of their children, children become the most easily controlled victims. But how long can memory deceive me? The injury is continuous. When you grow up, your relationship between the sexes, your view of marriage, your view of love, and repeating the same mistakes to hurt others will all form irreparable holes.
In my own opinion, the education and companionship of parents is the protective barrier against all this harm. It's not that being around the child all the time for fear that he will be hurt is that it is accompanied and protected. It is to truly understand them, what they like, and what they are passionate about, and build a very healthy attachment relationship. Respect the child's desire to be independent, even a little rebellious. Don't close the door and let them find the answer on their own. The family must leave this door open. Talking about love or sex is fine, no special hiding is needed, positive teaching must be healthier than their own groping. And gender doesn't make a difference in education. Boys can be sexually assaulted and hurt too, and it's not just girls who need protection. Similarly, boys need positive guidance to protect themselves while not hurting others. In the past, we would ask parents and teachers about the knowledge we didn’t understand. Now, children can get answers to their doubts on the Internet, but these answers have not been screened and are naked in front of children. As a result, too many children today seem to understand, but they are already very dependent on the Internet, thinking that those pictures, videos, and words are the truth, which is really scary. !
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