Many people who watched this movie felt that it was too difficult for the heroine to be like this, bringing out a schizophrenic...
In fact, from a psychological point of view, the heroine can only get through this period through fantasy. Her fantasies, her symptoms, were indeed a way for her to help herself.
As a mother, I have a deep understanding: raising a baby is really not easy. It is not easy for a woman to be a mother, no matter at home or abroad~
From this drama alone, the heroine herself has a lot of resources, but she didn't use it herself.
1. My brother wanted to lend a hand, but she didn't accept it. No matter whether the younger brother dislikes his brother-in-law or what, whether the younger brother likes to show off or not, but it can be seen that he hopes that his sister will have a good life~ He also helped his son's school, and the younger brother took the initiative to propose a night nanny.
2. The husband is not really dead, he can also help take care of the children and take care of the family~
Yes, the husband said something that made people feel very scumbag. It was not long after the heroine gave birth to the baby, and he was going on a business trip. He thought the heroine could handle it.
What is the reason why the heroine can't say: I'm too tired, I can't do it, I need help?
There must be a reason behind this!
I vaguely saw the heroine say that she has 3 stepmothers... The original family relationship should not be very good~
And what her brother said, in a situation like theirs, they can only rely on themselves~
And she can't accept strangers coming into her home at night. . This is also a clue to a clear distrust of people. . . I don't know what happened to the heroine that made her distrust others so much...
The heroine is used to being unreliable by anyone, only by herself!
So when it was so difficult to bring a baby, she didn't get angry with her husband who played games, but fantasized about a young self to bring the baby, how stubborn is this?
The fantasy night nanny Tully is actually the young herself!
That beautiful woman full of talent and spirit.
At 26, he has a lot of energy to pursue what he wants, whether it's a man or anything else.
It seems that the heroine herself has chosen her current life, her current husband. After experiencing so many people, why did she choose her current husband, even under such difficult circumstances, she still chose to carry it herself instead of complaining that her husband could not earn a lot of money and could not afford a good car? When her brother bought a good car and invited them to go, she was still comforting her husband. . .
She watched her husband's sexual fantasy and secretly bought a waiter uniform~
Repeating the monotonous life every day, but still able to continue day after day...
It's amazing, like that Tully said, it's amazing to be able to go on in such a dull, boring life.
But, but, there is a throbbing in our hearts, we don't want to be just like this, always be like this. Our nerves need "freshness" and "vigor".
The dilemma of the heroine is not necessarily a question of money, in fact, even if it is only what she has, she can live well.
Some people think that the final show of the film is a bit tough, but in fact, that may really be a possibility of life. It will be really much better if my husband can participate in and help with the baby. The wife can not only rest, but also watch her husband bring the baby, and she will also feel her husband's dedication and participation in the family. In this way, working together and working together for the family will make each other feel more love~
What kind of life is perfect?
Perhaps there will never be perfect conditions, and most importantly, we can use what we have to create a "perfect life."
Like a long spoon in hell that can't feed itself soup, but in heaven everyone uses a long spoon to scoop soup for others to drink.
Whether it is a woman or a man, everyone in this world has their own problems and homework, and there may be more than one answer!
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