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After watching "My God" and "Wrestling, Dad", I overturned the stereotype that Indian movies would only be boring singing and dancing. From then on, I fell in love with Aamir Khan and fell in love with Indian movies. Uncle Mi's movies have basically been watched. Three idiots make a scene in Bollywood, my god, wrestling, dad, stars on earth, and mysterious superstars are all classics. Indian thugs and phantom car gods can only be called cool. Drama, a purely commercial work that caters to the market. Little Loli's Uncle Monkey, Indian partner, starting line, etc. are all excellent works. Indian movies are indispensable for singing and dancing, and these lyrics are written very well. The screenwriter is really talented! When I saw someone recommending "Indian English", I looked for it and it didn't disappoint me. The hostess, Shahi, is a traditional Indian housewife. She is good at raising her husband and children at home and cooking. Her raddu balls are well received by nearby communities. She is beautiful, can make money, and can take care of the family and children. This is simply a model wife. She is also a freelancer, so she can receive a bunch of orders at home, doing what she likes, and customers are full of praise for her dim sum. Such a goddess-level character is full of aura in China, but Shaxi is often ridiculed and despised by her husband and children at home. Every time Shahi called her husband, he would impatiently say that he was busy with work without saying a few words, and hurriedly hung up her phone. The husband said to others, "My wife, she was born to make dura balls." Then he told his wife not to sell dura balls, just make them for me to eat.
After school, her daughter wore a miniskirt and went outside to dance and drink coffee, but lied to Sahi about going to her classmate's house to do her homework. Shahi asked if she could do her homework at home, and her daughter replied, "Can you help me with English literature?" Yes, the only problem with Shahi is that she doesn't speak English, and her younger son in kindergarten can speak English better than her. , she would say "jazz" to "chaz". In India's contempt chain, it's a shame that the upper class doesn't speak English. As a former British colony in India, English is the official language, British English despises Hindi English, Hindi despise Hindi.
Therefore, both her husband and daughter dislike her, and will ridicule her intentionally or unintentionally. The daughter didn't want her to participate in the parent-teacher meeting, because she thought her mother had humiliated her. Husband didn't want to speak Hindi on the phone in front of his colleagues and felt shameless. The twist of fate comes after Shahi goes to America. Shahi's niece is going to have a wedding, so she asks Shahi to go to Las Vegas to attend the wedding and help. The English barrier in American Shahi has been challenged once again.
In the restaurant, because I didn't understand English, I was slow to order food, and I was scorned and abused by the waiter. Thinking of the grievances she suffered at home over the years, the disrespect of her husband and daughter, and the taunts of those around her, intentionally or unintentionally, Shahi wept bitterly. When she saw the advertisement of 4 Learn to Speak English on the bus, she subconsciously memorized the phone number and signed up for an English class without telling her family, determined to learn to speak English.
She tried her best to learn English well. In the daytime, he insists on secretly going to class, overcomes his fears and bravely talks to his teachers and classmates. When encountering words that you do not understand, boldly ask your niece for advice. In the English class, I gained friendship and met a handsome French guy who admired her and adored her. The handsome French guy knew that she had a husband and children and confessed to her. (As a melon-eater, of course, the audience likes handsome guys, and expects her to kick her chauvinist husband.) However, the Indian film still pays great attention to the concept of family, the heroine Rejected without hesitation.
The handsome French guy is a chef. When it comes to cooking, Shahi said that cooking is an art for men, and cooking for women is an obligation. It can be seen that Shahi's awareness of herself is very low. The women's liberation movement has been around for many years, but the status of women is actually still very low. Not only India, but looking at the world, China, South Korea and Japan are still the same. Even though our economy has developed and society has progressed, our ideology has not been synchronized! Yang Liping was ridiculed a while ago. Life without children is incomplete, and the value of a woman's life is to marry and have children. There has been a lot of talk. We advocate women's liberation, equality between men and women, and equality between men and women, so that people have more freedom of choice, society is more inclusive, and people's pursuit of happiness is more diverse. The language kidnapping of "you will not be happy if you are not good" will only expose one's shallowness and make people feel disgusted. On the premise of not hurting others, one's happiness should be defined by oneself.
The encounter with the handsome French guy is very reminiscent of "Blue Bridge", but the smart Shahi knows exactly what she wants. What she wants is not to escape from marriage to pursue another love, nor to change someone because her husband is not respectful enough, what she wants is to win respect for herself through her own efforts. Shahi's rejection of the handsome French guy is a classic:
The pursuit of the opposite sex makes her like herself again, regain her self-confidence, and rekindle her love for life. This is a kind of happiness, the ability to make oneself happy, not to complain externally, but to seek from oneself, know how to examine oneself, and improve oneself. When a marriage encounters obstacles, many times it is not a divorce, or changing a person can solve the problem. If you don't solve the problem itself, where you go, who you meet, the problem will remain, and conflicts will still occur. Shahi really taught us a good lesson, the true independence of women must be spiritual self-independence.
Four weeks later, at her niece's wedding, Shahi spoke in English:
This wedding is really beautiful, it is also a sublimation of friendship! Life is a long journey. Sometimes you feel that you are weaker. You need to support each other and be equal to each other. Sometimes, couples in marriage don't care about each other's feelings, so how can they support each other? Isn't marriage coming to an end? No, at times like these, help yourself, because no one else can help you. Only then may you feel equal again, your friendships will be restored, and your lives will be better again. Maybe you will be very busy in the future, but you also have families, sons and daughters, whether in this vast world or in your own small world, you will feel very happy. Family, only family will never judge you arbitrarily, only family will not belittle you, will not make you feel worthless, family is the only person who will not laugh at your weakness, and family is the only one that you can always find A place of respect and love.
Shahi's English speech at the wedding won her respect and applause, made everyone admire her, and made her husband and daughter feel ashamed for their past behavior. The husband saw the change in his wife and the French handsome man's flirting with his wife. He hesitated and asked Shahi, "Do you still love me?"
At any time, the most important thing for women is self-love and self-improvement. When Shahi was repeatedly taunted and beaten because of her English barrier, she did not give up on herself. Only a person who loves himself can have a strong heart, and he will not pay too much attention to other people's eyes, and gradually exudes the charm of self-confidence.
Never give up learning and self-growth, fill your heart, and don't belittle yourself.
Happiness only comes to those who know how to cherish.
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