Those who are afraid of marriage and fear of parenting should watch carefully

Luther 2022-03-21 09:02:32

[Comedy] The label of the movie is comedy, and even the soundtrack of this film is so easy and naughty, as if a mother and children are laughing and playing. In fact, every mother who has brought a child will probably recall the chaotic life of a newborn. Ye Kulang, who was making a fuss at home, dragged his bloated and cumbersome body to and fro, and the scene of being exhausted and on the verge of collapse instantly appeared in front of his eyes. Where did the comedy come from, it's just a nightmare. [Tragedy] I don't think this film is a tragedy, and no one in it is particularly hateful or hateful. The person most likely to be criticized is probably the heroine's husband. His part of playing games at home may make many women furious, making people feel that this is indifference and dereliction of duty. But from another point of view, it is not less difficult for a husband to work from morning to night and to travel frequently to provide the necessary economic conditions for a family of five. Making money or raising a family is equally heavy. In the model of male lead outside and female lead inside, they are completing their own work and digesting their own troubles. Sending help to the other half is similar to emergency measures, and most of the time, the only one who can be reliable is yourself. Throughout the whole film, the most appropriate way to resolve conflicts is to hire a nanny, poverty is an unsolved tragedy. The love that is the hub of the relationship has not disappeared between them. She has always been like a heroine chasing a merry-go-round in the emotional world. In the end, she chose the bench, and it is also this steadfastness that is valued. The movie does not deliberately create a stereotyped image of men doing evil and women going mad, so that the relationship develops from the perspective of stereotyped men and women fighting against each other and hurting each other. There was a time in the middle of how many beautiful scenes and the heroine's blood-stained face on the poster. I thought that the night-shift nanny was bringing wolves into the room. Later, I found out that I was wrong. The film conveys a real quality of life: all kinds of helpless, unpleasant trifles, and the reproduction of details can't help but resonate. [Horror Movie] So I listed this movie as a horror movie. Most horror movies have an ultimate boss that suppresses your thoughts and makes you nervous. Eventually it is eliminated and the story can be HE. But the Boss of this film is a child, and most of the DNA and cells remain in your body. She is your future and your present, your source of joy and troublemaker. While you are troubled by her cries and noises, at the same time you are enjoying the family happiness brought to you by the family. You can't bring her down, you can only find a way out. There are several scenes of mermaids in the movie. In fairy tales, in order to meet the prince, the mermaid exchanged her beautiful voice for a pair of legs from the witch. Walking on the heart-piercing knife. "No pain, No gain", she endured the pain, her silent longing for happiness, this is a sacrificial, willing exchange. The heroine is also going through such a process of exchange and transformation, from a white-collar beauty in the company to a housewife with an out-of-shape body and an old face. "The Daughter of the Sea" is a fairy tale and a tragedy of love. From beginning to end, it is nothing but unrequited love. After the mermaid died, it didn't turn into a bubble soul and went to heaven, but what's the use of it, it's just to leave hope for the children, like a self-deceiving ending. The heroine almost died while driving after drinking, and the mermaid came to the rescue in a coma. Of course, it was an illusion from beginning to end. Whether you are stuck in the quagmire of life or on the verge of death, there will be no nanny Tully or a mermaid to help, the savior can only be you. The face of life has always been to be free in front of others and suffer behind others. Widowed marriages are not formed overnight. There are external factors that increase the pressure of survival due to fierce social competition, and now everyone is pursuing self-happiness. Exquisite egoism prevails, and the structure of marriage has become particularly fragile. Everyone wants the other half to pay a little more. When the stalemate persists, the ship of marriage is in danger of hitting the rocks. [Ending] The most terrifying part of the movie is that you may have the same parenting dilemma as the heroine, the same worries, and even her almost irresponsible husband, but you are even tighter than her, Not as strong as her heart. You have nowhere to run, you have nothing to say, you can do nothing. Those who fear marriage and fear of parenting should watch this film carefully.

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Tully quotes

  • Drew: Can we keep her?

    Marlo: She's not a dog.

  • Drew: I love us.

    Marlo: I love us, too.