When a father travels all over the country to see his child, it feels more like a farewell, farewell to the past, farewell to a father who was tough when he was young, and a child who was soft when he was a child. The longer you live and look back, you will understand that there are no perfect parents and perfect children in this world, and sometimes even go against your expectations. But the fetters of family love will not dissipate because of those stumblings and imperfections. The father stood in front of the tomb of his deceased child and said that if he started again, he would not be so harsh on him and would not force him to make life decisions. But the truth of life is that no matter how many times it is repeated, the father at that time will still make the same choice. Although parents and children are the closest people, they often cannot really understand each other. Young children think more about freedom. But parents think more about the future, because they always hope that their children can avoid it because they have suffered, but under the wings of their parents, how will they understand. But those ardent hopes will make children feel oppressed and painful, and that little pain is as light as a feather in the eyes of parents. Therefore, parents and children can understand each other more often and tolerate each other, which is the best parent-child relationship!
When he was young, the father treated the child harshly, because he turned all the suffering into expectations. In order to live up to the expectations, the child forced himself to grow up. When he grew up, he was no longer willing to ask his parents for help, and he was no longer willing to tell his parents about his hardships. . Who can say who is wrong and who is wrong? ! Even if parents who are getting old find that you are not meeting their expectations, they will still accept you, affirming you, that is love. Children who grow up slowly find that their parents can't understand their own life, they still don't want to disappoint their parents, this is also love! We love each other in different ways and in different ways, but we all want to share with each other.
While watching this movie, I happened to see a piece of news. The representative of the National People's Congress suggested that parents should also hold a qualified certificate to work. When I saw the title regardless of the real content, I instinctively thought it was very ridiculous. Why is it qualified? Who will judge? Who will set the standard? Who is qualified to say that they are the best parents and can be used as role models? ! This is like using a set of standards to measure countless people. People have thousands of appearances, and they have parents and children who are destined to be different. It is possible to use reason to restrain sensibility. Is this possible? ! What's even more cruel is how many people who hold "qualified certificates" are doing even more unqualified things!
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