The best part in this one is still the male lead. Just like the fourteenth character in "The Heartbreaker", and Xiao Pingjing in "The Wind Rises in the Long Forest".
The scumbag attributes of Harry (the male protagonist) are obvious: careless, irresponsible, and it's too late to understand love. Erica (the heroine) is also suspected of riding the wall. When Harry was not there, he used the doctor as a substitute. At the end, the doctor decided to let go. Erica immediately, immediately, immediately turned and threw himself into Harry's arms.
The doctor really interprets what is called love.
1. Know how to appreciate Erica's talent and beauty
I have read all her works and admire her deeply.
Harry always liked young girls, but the doctor didn't care that Erica was twenty years older than him, he could see through her age and wrinkles that she was brilliant and radiant.
She has not been nourished by love for a long time as she is getting older, and a woman in her fifties has acquiesced that she does not deserve to enjoy life. Erica's sister embarrassedly exposed the truth during the dinner, and Erica wanted to silence her on the spot.
The doctor, from the first time he saw Erica, regarded her as a goddess and followed her every move with hot eyes.
In contrast to the two men, one is superficial and the other is thoughtful, the contrast is too stark.
2. High emotional intelligence brings closer relationships
After the first appointment with Erica, the doctor called for a second appointment.
The rhetoric is classic like a textbook. If I want to see her, I have to make time for my busy schedule, for fear that she will forget him. Off-screen we can all feel his full of love.
Just the last sentence before hanging up the phone: "I ca n't wait to see you too."
Erica obviously didn't say anything, where did the "also" come from.
It was he who took the initiative to express his misses, but added "also", which skillfully narrowed the distance between the two people, which was too flirtatious.
Knowing Erica's restraint, he has his own excitement and anxiety, but he is not forced at all, silently tolerant, and considers everything for her thoughtfully.
Such an affectionate but not greasy man is a rare species even in love movies.
3. A considerate "for" apology
Erica let go of the doctor's pigeon on the second date. The doctor was obviously lost, but he didn't ask for guilt. He took a step back and digested everything by himself.
Until Erica's sister ran into him, thinking about Erica's brokenheartedness (in Harry's place), she was in a bad mood, and brought the doctor back to Erica.
The doctor's performance brightened again.
He brought a bunch of flowers and said, "This bunch is for you to apologize to me."
It is not an ordinary man who sees flowers brought by a woman. After all, there is a link between the two of them to put pigeons.
Not to mention it at all, nor to mention it solemnly.
He took the initiative to prepare an excellent step for her. The bouquet of flowers meant that he forgave her and understood her embarrassment.
Sure enough, the doctor's bouquet of flowers, a word, caused everyone to laugh, and the embarrassment of reuniting after the pigeon was resolved by him.
Too warm. It shows that he still loves her and loves her unconditionally.
Also too witty. Although he loves, he doesn't lower himself too much in front of her. Cleverly maintained the principle of "she did something wrong, she should apologize". After all, evenly matched love can last for a long time. One person kneeling and licking the other is never the state of love.
So while expressing love, he also expressed tolerance and maintained his dignity.
Three birds with one stone.
High, really high!
4. Love to let go
After the embarrassing dinner for the three in Paris, Erica obviously went back to the hotel with the doctor. The camera is on a lonely Harry, crying uncharacteristically at the bridgehead in Paris.
Then Erica appeared, and the doctor saw that there was still a relationship between them, and let Erica come to Harry.
The movie doesn't show how the doctor lets go of Erica. I would rather watch their emotional drama, so I made up for the doctor's psychological activities:
I understand the vague friendship between you. Although I love you very much, I can't bear you to violate the most real feelings. You may love me 80 percent, but you love him 100 percent; although I don't get 100 percent of yours, I give you a full 100 percent.
Although I have the confidence to give you the best love and company, just like the past six months, I still want you to have a rarer love.
Although it's a pity that I can't have the rest of your years, I'm so fortunate to have been together for half a year. This episode will be an indelible brilliance in my life, which I will treasure forever.
Letting go is the last expression of love, and it is also the highest form of expression.
Then, goodbye, once lover, love you the most.
Impressed just thinking about it...
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To add another clip of the love between the doctor and Erica:
(At the party after the pigeons were released, Erica also sincerely apologized later, saying that she was too abnormal recently, and she didn’t know what to say.
The doctor said: "Just apologise"
Erica earnestly: "I'm sorry."
Doctor: "Now you can kiss me."
Erica: "Kiss you? Will you forgive me if I kiss you?"
Doctor: "Probably."
Erica gave a light kiss.
Doctor: "No one will forgive you for this kind of kiss." Then he asked: "Let me come?"
A lingering kiss.
When it was over, the doctor said, "Now I forgive you."
Is there an explosion of flirting skills! )
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