Yesterday, I spent one afternoon and one night brushing the most popular ordinary people recently, 12 episodes. I brushed 8 episodes except 7-10 in the second morning.
To be honest, when I watched it for the first time, I thought the plot was bloody.
I could feel Marianne waiting for Connell to say a word to her many times, but Connell never said anything to her. Maybe this sentence was saying I love you, She is my girlfriend, etc. in front of all my classmates. Maybe it was when they broke up for the first time in high school. Connell said frankly that I can't lose my social life. It was the second time they broke up. When Connell didn't tell her that I couldn't pay the rent, but now I have nothing, would you still be with me? But he didn't, this cowardly man, I despised him. Such a good-looking girl is hurt by you for no reason every time. You love her enough. You don't care about other people's eyes, and by the way, a 12-episode short drama is abused.
But when I saw it for the second time, I didn't think the show was bloody at all, and I even thought that the male protagonist had a shadow of me. The first shadow is the loneliness that the male protagonist hides behind his efforts to socialize in high school. I think Connell and Marianne are both lonely people. In high school, Marianne's loneliness was obvious. She was a maverick. In college, she made many friends, but these friends were for her beauty, for her There are a few of the rich class who are really her friends, as mentioned in the last two episodes of the play, probably the fat girl Joanne. Not to mention Connell, his family is not good, so he will study hard, he will attach great importance to his social circle, he wants to live as everyone likes, as for his hobbies, his friends do not know, Because reading books is far less exciting than having sex. Then what does he talk to his friends about, it's nothing more than having sex, but in fact, some things that are over the line will make him feel like a "bother", and during college, he lived even more lonely. In fact, many people are not good at socializing. They are just constrained by some social routines and tell themselves that you should make more friends. I don't have a socialite like rachel around me, but if I had one, I'd love to befriend her too, because then I don't need to have a relationship with each other to gain a big social circle. It is precisely because of Connell's compromise to these social rules that he thinks Marianne is very special (personal opinion, my roommate said that because Connell and Marianne have good grades, the second place in the class often has a good impression on the first place, I have reservations. Well, Maybe a little), and Marianne is really beautiful. It's normal to be together. I love Marianne's first kiss and the first night scene. They are absolutely amazing. Because of this shadow, I can understand why Connell has never disclosed his relationship with Marianne or invited Marianne to the dance, because his own position in this circle is not strong, but he thinks he will depend on this circle very much. In fact, many years later, he You will find that in the bullshit circle, living well is the most important thing, no one cares.
The second shadow is that the only thing that can help a person overcome low self-esteem is his own achievements. Connell is a person with low self-esteem (to be honest, I didn't feel it, and the film critics think it makes sense), his low self-esteem is not obvious, I watched it for the second time, I know that low self-esteem may be hidden in his loneliness, It's hidden in adidas that he hasn't changed, and every time he answers the teacher's question, he says I agree with others. When he couldn't pay the rent and was rejected, it was the eve of the second breakup. I would feel sorry for this male lead. If he just likes to applaud Marianne for love, he won't care if he has no money or not. It was because he loved Marianne and he wanted to give her more security, so he pushed Marianne away again. I really feel sorry for Marianne here. I always feel that she is innocent. Forget it, there is no such thing as innocent in the emotional world. Later, when he received the scholarship, and when his manuscript was accepted and invited to exchange in New York, I was relieved for him, because I thought it was okay. In the past, I was also extremely low self-esteem, and I was stooped, but learning is my perseverance. When I stand at the middle and upper end of the education class system with my own efforts, I can really look ahead. At this time, I also feel that I can. . This "can" is the support for people like us to make decisions. If we lack it, we will always sink in inferiority and the consequences of inferiority.
The reason why I skipped 7-10, the breakup stage of the male and female protagonists, is mainly about the harm that the original family brought to the female protagonist, but I randomly picked boyfriends for the female protagonist, and what the original family brought her Masochistic tendencies indicate that one cannot empathize with one another, but expresses understanding that when a person believes that he is not worthy of being loved, he may choose to put himself in a disadvantaged position and ask others for mercy to give her some love. The heroine was lucky enough to meet such a gentle boy to heal her life, although she was speechless after being broken up twice.
In the end, Marianne is really beautiful and distressing. This first love story is also beautiful and heart-wrenching. Sending everyone a first kiss and a first night hahahahaha.
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