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Melody 2021-11-26 08:01:45

There is a kind of person who is like this, he will help others, he is kind, he never speaks loudly, but he has no friends or lovers.
A person's emotional needs include giving and getting it. He will help others, because such an emotional effort has no extravagant expectation of being rewarded. This is an emotion that can be satisfied after giving. But he will not love others, or he dare not love, because love needs to be reciprocated. You want the person you love to love you like you love her, and the lonely person is more eager for this kind of return, so he is afraid of disappointment, and then draws a paranoid conclusion, if I don’t love anyone , Then you will never be disappointed.
Plastic love did not respond, and of course there was no betrayal. If a person’s lifetime is quantified, the average value of most people is roughly the same. It's just that you can choose to be calm as water, or ups and downs. The center of this sine curve is always there, but the amplitude is different.
Looking around, it's about feelings. Those people who have been struggling and bruised are still obsessed with it without hesitation; and those who have not given out their first love so far are afraid of their heads and tails, for fear that they will not be entrusted to them. Injury is a compulsory course for growth. To refuse to be injured is to refuse to grow. Is Lars a lunatic? Bianca is just a catharsis of the 27-year torrent of emotions. Lars announced her birth and her death. He used the loss he arranged to alleviate the fear of true loss. Losing the past allows him to dare to face the unknown world, at least what is about to come will not look so terrible.
Surprised by the kindness of the residents of the small town, a town in Nuo Da, not to mention a bad person, there is not even an ordinary person like a petty citizen, they are all good people who love their neighbors as themselves, even people like police and doctors will act together. . You know, he didn't push a plastic model around the street, but it was an inflatable doll.

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Lars and the Real Girl quotes

  • Lars Lindstrom: I was hoping winter was over.

    Margo: No, it's just a thaw - winter isn't over till Easter.

  • Margo: What are you doing Friday night?

    Lars Lindstrom: I have a school board meeting. Bianca got elected, so...