What do you want in love?

Sheridan 2021-11-28 08:01:18

I watched "Dear John" the day before yesterday, the Chinese translation of "Break Up Letter".

Basically, this is a faint movie. It uses a lot of space to talk about the acquaintance and quarrel of a pair of lovers, missing tears and sharing happiness. The second half is only about the male protagonist's forbearance and plain life after the troop received the female protagonist’s letter of parting. After meeting again, the emotions gush out after knowing each other's current living conditions, and then embrace the story of warmth (or each thinking about each other and living independently, the movie has two endings). I guess this must be a movie that men cannot understand, although it is a movie directed by a man.

The heroine and the hero love each other deeply, so why do they break up suddenly?

Because the heroine can't bear the vacuum of loneliness, frustration, non-existence, powerlessness, and meaninglessness during the service of the hero, she needs someone to rely on, a person who can hug her at any time, this person is even a patient As a husband, he doesn’t have any advantage, but he is a mature person who loves the heroine very much. They give a light and a silent acceptance. They all know that it is a request, and they all know that the heroine has one and only one in his heart. The male protagonist exists, so they are made together.

It is really the "Wuthering Heights" of modern society.

I am married to someone else, because I need the warmth from strangers to support myself to live, and the only purpose of surviving is to continue to love you~~ It

seems so ridiculous.

I just watched a very similar movie the other day, "White Night Walk", Keigo Higashino's book, a Korean movie version. It is about "I am married to someone else because I need money from strangers to support our future lives, and the only purpose of surviving is to continue to love you~~"

is also a script written by a man.

Does the hostess do this with some other emotions, for example, am I really loved by this person; he will definitely understand my choices and practices; my body is elsewhere but my heart will always belong He and only belong to him~~ and so on.

The ending of the story is of course very tragic, maybe this is also the original intention of the man screenwriter and the director, telling those dreaming women, emotional women, and self-women with stories that are similar to fables. There are two possibilities to do this, one is you The person who loves you deeply and deeply regrets that you will be muddled for life. The other is that the person you love and love you deeply chooses to die in order to save you.

Men and women will break up. There are no more than two possibilities. One is that one party clearly knows what they want and the other can't give it; the second is that one party doesn't know what they want and the other party is at a loss.

In love, what do you want? John wants persistence and waiting, while Savannah wants warm embrace and daily company~~

tragedy~~

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Dear John quotes

  • Savannah Curtis: The problem with time, I've learned, whether it's those first two weeks I got to spend with you, or the final two months I got to spend with him, eventually time always runs out. I have no idea where you are out there in the world, John. But I understand that I lost the right to know these things long ago. No matter how many years go by, I know one thing to be as true as ever was - I'll see you soon then.

  • John Tyree: There's something I wanna tell you. After I got shot, you wanna know the very first thing that entered my mind? Before I blacked out? Coins. I'm eight years old again on a tour of the U.S. Mint. I'm listening to a guy explain how coins are made. How they're punched out of sheet metal. How they're rimmed and beveled. How they're stamped and cleaned. And how each and every batch of coin are personally examined just in case any of them slipped though with the slightest imperfection. That's what popped into my head. I'm a Coin of the United States Army. I was minted in the year 1980. I've been punched from sheet metal. I've been stamped and cleaned. My edges have been rimmed and beveled. But now I have two small holes in me. I'm no longer in perfect condition.