I love you stay and hold me go

Zane 2022-03-21 09:02:38

It took two hours to read this Zu and Zhan, and my heart kept throbbing and couldn't stop.

At the beginning of the film, before the picture appeared, the female voice narrated first:

You say: I love you I say: stay

I almost said: own me but you said: let's go

This Catherine monologue tells Catherine's place in the triangle from the very beginning. She is the "queen" of the three, she is the feminine "sun" in German, and she is in charge of the same feminine "love". As for Zu and Zhan, these close friends in the style of "Don Quixote's master-servant relationship", they couldn't help but love her and held her in their hands as a real queen. A woman dear to both of them may not be a good wife. At the beginning, Zu and Catherine's marriage may have been a mistake, and even the confession when they agreed to the marriage proposal was a bit absurd, "You don't know how many women, but I know too many men, so they cancel each other out, maybe they can live together." After marriage, the two are not ideal. The bottom line is that Catherine doesn't love Zu. She and Zu are not the same way. She is attracted by her sense of security and purity. She inevitably misses the romantic past and Zhan. Handsome and curious man. So, Zu became the "honest person", silently taking care of Catherine, maintaining a specious marriage, and in a series of love-hate entanglements, he stayed by Catherine's side, until finally Catherine and Zhan died, "he Feeling relieved."

As for Zhan, he and Zu jointly formed the title of the film, but they were two completely opposite people. He was funny, caring, able to observe the small emotional changes of women, and was also romantic. There were constant women around him. Like Catherine, he was a The kind of person who is admired by the opposite sex, and he also has a baby like his ancestor to Catherine, no matter how he is outside, no matter whether he really loves her in his heart, he is always waiting to complete the agreed marriage contract. In this relationship, Cynthia, like Katherine, shrewdly exploits Jiaobei's unconditional love.

Zu and Zhan, although they are talking about a triangular relationship, but in fact there are only two people. One is Zu, unconditional devotion, lowering herself into the dust. Jiaobei is also such a person. When Zhan left Catherine, she said frankly: "The hotel always gives me a sense of guilt, I am not moral, but I don't like trysts, you But it's not, don't deny it, I won't believe you anymore" She and Zu both clearly knew that the other had someone else in their hearts, but they both chose to share. Now everyone likes to tease such people for licking the dog. It is true that licking the dog is likely to have nothing in the end, but love is not a shrewd calculation. They all fell into the trap of love, but so what. Zu has always held the belief of sacrifice. He can't get Catherine's passion, but he can always be by Catherine's side until the end, witnessing the drowning of their passion. At the end of the film, the coffins of the two were engulfed by flames, and the freed Zu walked alone in the cemetery. Is his footsteps brisk, I can't tell.

As for Zhan, he and Catherine are the same kind of people. They can dominate in love. As Catherine said, "We love each other, but I don't love as much as you." The emphasis of "I" is a kind of self-confidence after being favored. This is especially true for Catherine. She who dominates the love between the two pays the least, and can play "pajamas" in front of two people who love her deeply. trick", proclaiming his absolute dominance over this love like a lion urinating on the territory. But this domination wasn't Catherine's power, it was Zu Yuzhan who handed the whip rope to her. In the identity of the same lover, Zu and Zhan are also different. Compared to Zu's sacrificial love from beginning to end, Zhan's love is controlled. When Catherine once again tried to prove Zhan's loyalty, Zhan fought back. He no longer had any hope of marrying Catherine, and he would complete the engagement with Jiaobei. In the suddenly tense soundtrack, Zhan seized the gun in Catherine's hand and jumped out of the window. He escaped the bondage of love, and the soundtrack also turned into a magnificent military music, which seemed to mark his victory in love. Until finally, many years later, when they met again, Catherine took him down the broken bridge, and the passionate love ended in the entanglement of water plants.

They played with the source of life and failed.

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Jules and Jim quotes

  • Jules: The most important factor in any relationship is the woman's fidelity. The husband's is secondary. Who was it who wrote, "Woman is natural, therefore abominable?"

    Jim: Baudelaire, but he was describing a certain world.

    Jules: Not at all. He spoke of women in general. What he says about a young girl is magnificent: "Horror, monster, assassin of the arts, little fool, little slut. The greatest idiocy combined with the greatest depravity." Wait. I'm not finished. This is marvelous: "I'm always astonished they allow women inside churches. What could they possibly have to say to God?"

    Catherine: You're both fools.

  • Jim: I understand.

    Catherine: I don't want to be understood. It's almost dawn.