In a series of injury incidents, when we blame the perpetrator, do we reflect on why the victim becomes the victim? When evil thoughts and objects cannot be completely eliminated, can we learn a lesson from it, so as to better protect ourselves and keep away from all evil?
Whether Bao Moumou, a girl from Peking University, was emotionally manipulated, the concept of "emotional manipulation" and the representative film "Under the Gaslight" were pushed to the center of the public's field of vision.
"Under the Gas Lamp" tells a story like this: Anton, who failed to make money from Paula's aunt, killed Paula's aunt's life, which left a deep shadow of fear in Paula's heart. Paula, who has no relatives and no reason, travels to a foreign country and is fostered with a musician. But when Paula became a slim girl, Anton lurked into Paula's life again. With his excellent acting skills, he successfully got Paula, and used Paula's love for him to encourage Paula to come back to her together. The haunted house where my aunt died. In that haunted house, Anton used some psychological suppression and hints, trying to make everyone think that Paula was crazy, and more importantly, let Paula feel the same way, in order to defraud the long-coveted "Golden Mountain" . And just when Anton's strategy was about to be completed, the rescue of the righteous brought Paula back to life, and also allowed the haunted house to get the truth that it was robbed before.
Today we're not going to talk about how to change Anton's existence, today we're going to talk about how we can reject Paula's tragic experience. There will be comments on the Internet that if you encounter a master of emotional manipulation, then depending on who you are, there is no way to escape the tragic ending. But I always believe that everyone has free will. The reason why a person can be hurt and the reason why a person can be repeatedly hurt is that TA must give the victim the right to hurt himself.
When watching the movie, a scene that impressed me particularly was that Paula wanted to go out many times, wanted to go out to see the city, and wanted to go out to meet people, but she could not go out. She kept lingering at the door, constantly going out, in, out, in, and in. No one locked her, and she couldn't get out, just because Anton didn't think she should go out. Anton made her believe that she couldn't go out alone.
Maybe you would say that Paula's fear of failure was out of fear that Anton would make her pay the price of disobedience. She succumbed to Anton's authority. It was Anton who created an airtight environment to create A terrifying atmosphere made her have to doubt herself and put her faith in Anton.
In fact, not only Paula, not only Anton, anyone who puts their beliefs in life on anyone, such behavior is extremely dangerous. Because people are always imperfect, because people always let us down, because if one day, that person is not perfect, what will our sense of belief look for as a support? How can we continue to live peacefully and happily?
The power of belief is enormous. That is, bad beliefs produce great, bad energy, and good beliefs produce great, good energy. Just like the touching deeds that happened in the earthquake by word of mouth: what can a mother do when faced with a house that has collapsed with force? Although she only has a weak body, she has a strong belief, she burst out the energy of her body, so she died, but the baby in her arms was unscathed. This is the good side.
So, today, where do your beliefs come from? Is it someone? Is it some kind of trend? What do we feed our faith today? Is it safe and sound? Or panic?

The reason why your life and mine can be eroded by darkness is because you and I did not let the light in in that dark place.
I think a large part of the reason why Paula can be frightened like this is because the fear in Paula's heart has been awakened. Although, this is deliberately done by Anton using Paula's breakthrough, but in fact, you can't The denial is that this is indeed Paula's own problem, a "historical problem", a problem that has not been properly solved before.
So, does escaping really work? Can you really forget all your fears when you go to a foreign country? Is it okay to just keep quiet about it as if it didn't happen? Sometimes, the harder we try not to think about something, the more we think about it, like, the more we cover up a thing, it's actually going to be the same thing. Paula's frightened expression was evident from a passer-by who accidentally talked to Paula about the house where her aunt lived. She was really scared, and she never forgot that she was not cured in this matter.
Perhaps, Paula also wanted to be cured, but she caught the wrong life-saving straw.
So, what are your "historical questions" today? What are the "bricks" thrown out by your "enemy" planning to take over your city? Everyone's problems are not the same, there are some problems, and the solutions to problems are not the same, but I think we can work together to solve problems together, find problems bravely, and face them bravely problem, and then bravely solve it.
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