Why are there so many people who are about to get divorced and divorced?
Don't laugh at me when you say it. I used to be a person who took the two tasks of getting married and whether to get married or not divorced into life planning seriously. I started thinking about getting married in high school. After that, I also talked about some relationships, and there were quite a few, but the common feature of all relationships was that they never got married in the end.
When I was in college, I used to lie in bed with my roommate on the night of the power outage and discuss the topic of how old to get married, accurate to how old, guess who gets married first, imagine what the wedding will look like, and even I remember my roommate said that she will be 25 years old. After the baby is born, it will help to restore the body.
Probably at that time I thought that liking someone was to "be with him forever and ever", which was basically the same as getting married. But then I gradually discovered that this is not the case. Marriage is a relationship between two families, not just two people. Of course, people should be together because they want to be together forever, but that doesn't mean marriage.
Marriage is complicated, getting along is complicated, and people are complicated. Living in a family where parents are happily married and everyone is harmonious and happy, it seems that it is easy to have high expectations for marriage. But in fact, having a happy married life is simply a small probability event. Every family has a scripture that is difficult to recite. How many people have left, and how many have not left are simply make do. Getting married is not an easy task. Once you are married, if it is time to get divorced, it is better to leave.
Life is only a few decades short, and I am afraid that I will not have enough time to meet the person I like him and he likes me, and we are super suitable for each other. Or he can't wait for me, he meets someone else first; or because of my own limitations, we have met, but I missed it.
All in all, a happy married family life - I don't have huge expectations for that anymore. It's not that I don't want to get married, I just don't have the confidence.
But it doesn't matter. For now, I think it's okay.
Life is an end, not a means. What Kant said.
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