Suppression does not mean the pain will go away

Norberto 2022-03-22 09:02:42

In August 2016, the American media "Indianapolis Star" published a series of investigative reports "Out of Balance", revealing how the USA Gymnastics turned a blind eye to sexual assault. Subsequently, hundreds of female victims came forward to accuse, and finally at the end of January 2018, Larry Nassar, the former team doctor of USA Gymnastics, was sentenced to 175 years in prison for sexually assaulting more than 150 female athletes in 20 years. This is real!

The film "Letterhead Story", which was released in the United States at the end of May 2018, is also based on the director's real experience. At the beginning, you will ask, does the 48-year-old heroine really have no memory of what happened at the age of 13? If the old mother hadn't flipped through her daughter's letter, wouldn't there have been nothing else? After a search, there is a psychological defense mechanism for trauma called "repression" in psychology. In layman's terms, it is a healing method for specific amnesia and selective amnesia. So don't doubt whether it is a fictional plot in a dog blood drama, the pain is real.

There is a dialogue between a 48-year-old heroine and a 13-year-old heroine in the middle of the movie. If you watch it, you will understand why a 13-year-old girl thinks that getting along with an adult man is love? ? ? The girl feels that her life should be controlled by herself, and what she needs is the approval and trust of others, not just preaching and accusing. And mental immaturity just gave criminals an opportunity! A dialogue between the heroine at the end of the movie directly answers the thoughts of the 13-year-old girl. She doesn't feel that she is a victim, she feels that a man loves her, and she gets what others can't... It's just that she doesn't know that life will continue without her man, just change to another heroine!

I can't help but ask, why does the girl's family seem to be absent? Obviously, her parents have both, and she has no worries about food and clothing. In the film, it was filmed twice. Several of her brothers and sisters were chasing and fighting, her mother and grandmother were yelling at the children, and her father was busy developing the land and had no time to say a few words to her daughter. The girl was in a sensitive adolescence, in this kind of family environment, and was imperceptibly pushed to the side of the devil. When the 48-year-old daughter and the old mother talked about it again, their dialogue could not help but make the audience feel a little absurd!

At the end, when the virgin protagonist confronted the criminal, there was no guilt or remorse on the man's face, but he was still proud and bright. Through the plot of the movie, it can be known that there are more than one or two girls who have been victimized. When will justice arrive? There is no answer at the end of the movie.

Remember the 2017 movie Carnival? similar themes. At that time, it also set off a small climax of public opinion.

In the South Korean short track speed skating scandal that was exposed in January 2019, the former coach was only sentenced to 1 year and 6 months in prison for beating a player.

Whether it is news or film and television dramas, it seems to never stop. Media public opinion is just another wave after the wave of heat has receded. Did anything really change? system? law? Or moral level?

Some injuries may not go away completely and heal on their own. But let's hope justice doesn't come too late!

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  • Pamela 2022-03-18 09:01:06

    35 years later, Jennifer finally decided to face this unbearable past. She publicized her experience of being sexually assaulted by Bill when she was 13 years old, and confronted Bill in public: Didn't you call me your little girlfriend? Not surprisingly, Bill denied it. Yes, he just won the Outstanding Citizen Award. How could he admit that he sexually assaulted young children in front of everyone? If Bill really didn’t use his identity as a coach to sexually assault Jennifer, if he really thought he was in love with Jennifer, if he really loves Jennifer, when Jennifer asked him "Didn’t you call me your little girlfriend?" , Why didn't he dare to admit it? Because he knew it was wrong to sexually assault a young child, he always knew it. So, "falling in love" with children is nonsense. There is no "true love" between adults and children. It is nothing more than using children's ignorance to satisfy their own selfish desires, and then using "falling in love" and "true love". Such nonsense prevents the victim from knowing that he has been hurt, so he will not go to the police.

  • Maxine 2022-03-25 09:01:19

    Restrained and restrained, female directors have once again been confirmed to be suitable for such subjects. It does not use masking to shape the image, nor does it render it to a black and white level, but it truly taps into the dark and distorted side of human nature. Until the real photos shown at the end of the film, I was willing to believe that this turned out to be a real thing!

The Tale quotes

  • Jenny at 13: I'm the hero of this story, NOT the victim. They fell apart, I didn't.

  • Jenny at 13: [regarding her parents] I'm sick of all their stupid rules!