At the beginning of the film, the discount mechanism is described through the mouth of the daughter, and the value of things decreases greatly over time. The core of the mechanism is to warn the potential danger of new things for the survival of human beings. The wife pays too much attention to the emerging red flags and ignores the initial splendor of the treasure, and the husband's love for his wife is washed away by time, like a depreciated necklace no longer shining.
The moment of being crushed by failure, like snowflakes, it condenses into ice and pierces it. Dragging a useless body is confined to the past, like eroding society's trifles. The straightforward solution to being persuaded by friends is to create, to collide the scattered inspirations into sparks, and to make up the truth. The heroine seems to be staying in a transparent container, swaying at the end of the green landscape. Seemingly lush and vibrant, but the inner wall is mottled, the vines that grow wantonly are smoldering and invading. Get rid of it, uproot it, and cover everything with a mighty mudslide created by the rainstorm. The daily life that goes on and on makes people like a trapped beast, and can't enjoy the happiness of peace, so they can choked up the difficulties of mediocre daily life with the raindrops singing. But the artist's unique and sensitive tentacles penetrate into the micro-level, and he is struck by the cute love.
The popular quality is overrated, but at the moment of rising star recorded by video and video, it is also thought that life can be forever in high spirits. Then, being kicked on the underbelly, taking advantage of the decent look and feel of the surface plate, he disappeared in a hurry to make the brilliance immortal. The overflowing talent and energy always need to be vented. It is rumored that children are the greatest works of their parents, so benevolence, after many miscarriages, finally bet the remaining miracles on the daughter with heart defects. Daughter is polished and polished so beautifully, smart and kind, but not flattering. It is commendable that she regards her mother as her best friend. .
When the heroine is ranting about her former best friend, the camera cuts to the husband's inappropriate count of his wife by the doctor. Twenty years ago, the good stories were piled up with good looks, outstanding talents, humor and vitality, but time wasted, sand and gravel buried gold, the woman could not admit the trauma she could not let go of to the person beside her pillow, and the failure poured out like sharp teeth in the sleepless night. Tranquility, exhaustion also fills the inner black hole. And the man is full of false sense of his lover, exaggerating the analogy that his wife is a replica replaced by aliens, excuses the responsibilities of family and work, and can't be dragged into the abyss by his wife. Once again advocated by the good people, they will point the sword and spear at the partner, as if the wife will be imprisoned and isolated from the source to sweep the endgame.
The understanding of heart-to-heart is really a luxury. Most people wave their hands and say that people are incomprehensible. Forcing a wave of empathy is hypocritical and arrogant. Experience is like flowing water slowly and firmly scouring out the gully, and the people passing by just glance at it and then detour, but it does not mean that no one can build the bridge, at least it will not be an understatement to give up without trying. But what is even more regrettable is that they have come down from a common source, overcome obstacles and detours around countless levels, but they can't come back together. If both parties exhaust their love to settle the marriage, they can also say that they only want to see each other for the first time. But the man is full of benevolent and righteous lies for your good, the heroine is unbelievably defeated, and she also seeks trust and fantasizes that it can be resolved internally. In the end, he could only flee in embarrassment, but instead, he resorted to his neighbors who had grievances in the past. I am amazed at the adaptability of the heroine and deeply feel the irony of marriage.
Husband downplayed his wife's disappearance, she'll be back when she's ready, she's once again escaping the fact that we're going on with our lives. It seems to be profound and righteous, but it is actually a perfunctory exploration of the underlying reasons. When she runs away from personal responsibility, refuses to fit in with the community, and has no sense of what's going on around the house and courtyard, her husband will only get angry and seize the adaptive barrier to cover his shame. Co-parenting a daughter with a birth defect did not cement or directly split their relationship, and they were still slowly drifting like continental plates. In the process of looking for his wife, the husband saw the large wine bill on the cruise and assumed that he was drinking to relieve his worries, while the daughter thought it might be a carnival tonight. In the process of searching, the husband finally realized that he should not let his wife, an artist, stop creating, and he finally failed.
At the end of the film, the wife's enthusiasm was ignited by the reconstruction of the Antarctic research station, the uncontrollable heartbeat accelerated, and joy overflowed from her eyes. Difficult to guarantee sleep, bathing, exercising and working alone for a long time, but they all fit the situation of the heroine in the past two decades. Based on the strict transportation conditions of the Antarctic Station, the hostess will also implement the design concept of the previous 20-mile house and open up a new life forward. Just like the daughter said, don't complain like the mother that life is boring, the sooner you realize that the fun can only be brought by yourself, the more delicious life will be.
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