According to Li Yinhe, sadomasochism (SM) is one of the most passionate and imaginative of all sexual relationships, and its intensity and depth are far beyond the so-called "normal" sexual relationship patterns. I am inconvenient to comment on this statement because I have no personal experience, but now it seems that I have gradually gained more understanding and feelings. As a very difficult and even artistic way of playing, SM involves an extremely complex coordinated interaction between control and obedience, just like a pair of dance partners without fixed dance steps and rules, in the pain of shame and desire It constantly moves between the pleasures of it, not to mention that it has to face the strong pressure of various sensitive ethical and social rules from time to time, and even serious doubts about whether it is fundamentally "politically incorrect" (I once I was a little confused about this, but it has now been relieved). Therefore, in this strange dance, which is difficult and dangerous - but also more exciting and anticipating, it is not easy to dance to the top.
And this psychological and emotional evolution process between attraction and rejection, manipulation and tacit understanding is quite specific in this film, especially in the presentation of some subtle movements and expressions, which is very tense and wonderful. In fact, I have not seen this better than this film. Personally, I think that after reading this film, you can basically understand what is going on with SM. Really interesting.
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