A wife, a mother, and myself!

Harrison 2022-03-21 09:02:43

The wise man the heroine met on the plane was the first noble person. She helped the heroine a lot along the way, gave her initial confidence, and kept telling her, you have to be confident and don't be frightened by the paper tigers of capitalism ! The wise man told the heroine that the first time in life is precious, so experience it well. Yes, I agree very much. When we enter an unfamiliar environment, every pore on our body is opened, and everything around us is so unfamiliar and unnatural. However, with a period of constant adaptation and learning, it will gradually get better and not feel so out of place. This also means that our bodies and minds have embraced these changes. However, gain and loss are mutual, and the original curiosity will also be lost, and many people even forget why they started and their original intentions. When her child was injured, the heroine discovered the imbalance between her learning of a skill and her mother's responsibilities. She realized in time her "going into the devil", which seemed to be forbearance and sacrificed a lot of personal pursuits, but She reaps the joy and happiness of being a mother. There is a reward. Although the heroine was not able to take the final graduation exam, the teacher still sent her the graduation certificate (although it was a training that cost money, it is also a very important thing for the heroine. The most important thing about this movie is that we seem to follow the heroine through every first experience and feel the warmth of every bit in the society (the black security guard who helped her learn to ride the subway, the English class where we help each other classmates, etc.) also saw some coldness (the American waiter impatiently ordering food)…………

✍ Don't forget your responsibilities. When you start to pursue self-worth, your social value and family responsibilities also need to be balanced. This is not about fighting for some kind of rights (feminism or men's rights), but a sense of responsibility that people should have.

The heroine studies in order to gain respect, and gives up continuing to study for the sake of her children, because she finds that in the process of learning, she cannot protect her children and family well.

Appropriate giving up is another gain.

On the road of learning, there will never be any laggards. As long as you want to learn, you will learn one day. Those who walk in the front are just adapting for a period of time before you learn. Don't give up on yourself, as long as you want to learn a new skill, go for it bravely! OK!

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English Vinglish quotes

  • Yu Son: You hear? Sir David and boyfriend break up! Sir David very sad.

    Eva: I know.

    Salman Khan: Nothing sad about gay. People breaking up... drop one and pick another!

    Shashi Godbole: Salman... don't say that. No making fun... We are all different from each other. For you... David Sir may not be 'normal'... For David Sir... you may not be 'normal'... but feelings are all the same... and pain is pain...

  • Shashi Godbole: When you don't like yourself... you tend to dislike everything connected to you. New things seem to be more attractive. When you learn to love yourself... then the same old life... starts looking new... starts looking nice. Thank you... for teaching me... how to love myself! Thank you for making me... feel good about myself. Thank you so much!