Watching the second season of "My Gifted Girlfriend" and the first season of "skam" in the past two days has given me a lot of insight into women's trial and error, growth and self-confidence.
There are two things I remember most about "skam":
First, eva received a threatening letter that she was blacklisted, so she mustered up the courage to find a third-grade senior to explain that she didn't want to involve her friends in the blacklist.
However, several senior sisters who were uniformly wearing black coats told her calmly that they didn't care about eva's scandal and would not put her on the blacklist, and that the scandals of the people present here were more than hers. More serious, don't take it too seriously.
Those senior sisters even started chatting and laughing calmly. They were infected with chlamydia by a few scumbags. Those black clothes, those calm faces and words.
When we were freshmen, freshmen or younger, we were afraid to face ourselves because of some embarrassing thing about ourselves, and faced our classmates, wanting to make a hole in the ground. Walking on campus, you will also feel the self-confidence of those senior sisters, which is naturally so unforgettable at a glance.
You are always told that girls need to be confident. Tell you to read more, tell you to have temperament. Tell you that confident girls are the most beautiful. But there was always fear and worry inside. Looking back, self-confidence cannot be learned, and temperament cannot be imitated. That's what experience has given. Before those times were light and cloudless, there must have been countless embarrassments, countless shyness, and countless people who wanted to escape.
So now, I will no longer comfort those girls younger than me and say, you have to be confident. I just want to tell them, be yourself, don't think about those routines, don't think about how to make yourself more elegant. Just don't lose hope, don't lose rational thinking. Embrace every occurrence, and then confidence and grace will naturally follow you.
Second, Jonas asked Eva what kind of self you want to be. You are always doing things that others think are fashionable, but you don't know what you want to do and what you want to be. Reminds me of Lennon who always wanted to catch up with Lina in "Girlfriend Genius". Different people have different talents and different personalities. There are fashionable things that make you feel happy and make you feel valued, but they are not your own.
For a woman, this wife is too important. There are thousands of girls who are passionate about beauty and skin care, fashion and trends. But when asked which woman is most respected by the world. What impressed me the most were Madame Curie and Soong Ching Ling in elementary school textbooks, and Tu Youyou and Dong Mingzhu later. Choosing a field, a hobby, and a goal to stick to is the cement for a woman's inner world. The stronger the insistence, the more stable the superstructure will be.
Find yourself and stick to yourself.
Finally, when I watched this drama "SKAM", I had fantasies that if one day in the future, I would like to watch it with my daughter. Those fragments of youth are too meaningful. When the major promotion accounts used to promote "skam", they always liked to refer to it as the Nordic "skins" or "gossip girl". But I really like "skam" so much, it doesn't have a lot of sexual descriptions and it's not as obscure as British dramas. Those things are ordinary, those feelings are what every adolescent has to some extent, can find their own shadow, those who are confused, brave and vulnerable. The truths that are slowly revealed are so real and appropriate. Like warm water, it protects the growing inner world.
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