Dad’s problem: Dad is so nervous that he thinks his son has never had a problem. This also makes the son despise his insensitivity from the bottom of his heart and think that Dad is best to cheat. Dad has never used his good relationship with his son to communicate with him about the mother-child relationship. Dad always thinks that his son is fine and there is no problem, and all the problems are with his wife. Even so, I never had the idea of communicating with my wife. I just settled my wife with one hammer: you need to see a doctor. Subconsciously thinks that his wife cannot communicate.
Son’s problem: All the son’s problem is that he is as sensitive as his mother and too much amplifies his inner feelings. He keenly perceives his mother's opinion of himself, and he knows that his mother does not approve of himself and feels that he is an evil and abnormal person. And because of this, he held a grudge. My son's retaliatory approach is: the more you think I am abnormal, the more abnormal I will show you. ——In fact, after all, I still want to be recognized by my mother, and hope that my mother will not be prejudiced against herself. All his actions are to attract the attention of his mother! He just hopes that the person he cares about the most can suddenly realize and bend his knees to change his views and attitudes. ——Just like the mother does not hold the baby, the baby throws the toy on the ground. At home, the son cares about his mother the most, and subconsciously hopes that his mother can become a father, as he always thinks he is normal.
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