his mother took him to the hospital, but she hoped the doctor diagnosed his son is autistic,
so she could explain to his son the reason is not normal performance,
because Kevin and Not as obedient and obedient as other children, to make parents happy.
When we go to kindergarten, all the children we like to see are obedient. The
teacher tells you to sit down and never move. If the parents call someone to call them uncle and aunt,
if there is a child just sitting in the corner coldly,
The teacher will say that the child is not gregarious, and the most serious one will let the parents take home.
We always think that children are children and need to be educated.
We often overlook that
more than 90% of what we can teach children are wrong or useless.
Kevin is just a particularly smart kid. He can't stand the regular education.
He didn't want to be treated as a child since he was a child. What he needs is love and freedom.
I particularly understand Kevin, because once, I was also such a child. The
child’s need for her mother is definitely not how much work she does,
how much clothes she washes, how much food she cooks, how many times she wipes the floor•••• ••
Children need unconditional acceptance and blessings from their mothers.
In the film, Eva is a hardworking but authoritarian mother.
She wants Kevin to behave as she hopes to behave.
When Kevin’s performance exceeds expectations, she feels that Kevin’s performance is pathological,
and Kevin What I want to express is that I am like this, do you still love me?
Kevin broke his arm by his mother. He immediately told his father that he accidentally broke his arm, and
then threatened his mother with this. Because of guilt, my mother compromised again and again.
In fact, that was the first time Eva admitted that she did not accept Kevin's behavior,
but after that, she could only continue to accept it passively, although she never accepted it in her heart.
Eva can't face her own plight, so she chooses to escape.
She can choose not to give birth to Kevin, choose Kevin to continue working when he is older,
or choose to divorce, so that her husband can really face Kevin.
She didn't tell her husband when she was pregnant with the second child,
thinking that nothing happened unless she said it.
This pattern has always existed in her, and she can't solve it by herself.
Kevin killed people, and the victim's parents violated Eva time and time again, and
Eva would only compromise. In fact, her compromise was never weakness, just arrogance.
I'm not like you, see what you can do with me!
At the carnival ball held by the company, a male colleague invited her to dance, and she said that she would not. Could
she be a fashionable girl who loved to play and travel,
might not be able to dance? She didn't jump just because
she was in this group and her heart was not here, so the male colleague pointed out her arrogance, and
she immediately left, not responding to other people's retention.
She has been insisting on being herself, no matter what other people do, she just wants to be herself,
but she ignores it, Kevin also wants to be herself,
how can she want to be a niche, but let her son be the public?
If Eva can accept the appearance of Kaiwen, don’t teach Kevin to count,
let Kevin do what he likes, and let him focus on what he is really good at,
maybe Kevin can become a particularly good person. .
We analyze other people's stories and always hope to be helpful to our lives.
I have reached the childbearing age and I don't know when the child will come.
I also hope that I learn to let go and give my children love and freedom,
It's just that I can't learn from stories in my life, I can only practice it myself.
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