We need to learn about Kevin, our parents and ourselves

Before, because my mother was extremely unhappy in her life, she said to me, "The genes in your bones are terrible." "The dregs of your father's family are concentrated on you." "Your family married to any family will only drag others down." "So for many years I was too lazy to comb my hair and skin care to maintain my figure. I never paid attention to my image, 140 pounds, sloppy, and sloppy. I essentially refused to be a girl, and even vowed that I would never get married in this life in order to avenge my mother. I can understand part of Kevin's approach.

In fact, there is a very small part in the film. Mother said she would take Kevin to the restaurant for dinner, and Kevin ate the roast chicken before going to the restaurant. The mother was displeased and said: "We are going to eat in the restaurant in a while!" The son said: "I am growing up and get hungry easily."

I suddenly felt that part of the mother's problem was that she was too cautious. If I were a mother and saw my son's gluttonous taste of chicken, I thought I would laugh. Then he took out more chicken (frozen) from the refrigerator and smiled and said, "Whether you can chew this together?" The

mother actually didn't know that her son loved her deeply, but she didn't know how to express it normally. It may be related to his anti-social personality in his bones. But the mother treats her son deliberately and carefully, instead of narrowing the distance between her and her son, it will make the son feel more alienated.

But we can't embarrass this mother. The son’s own problems complicate the communication problem. In addition, the father avoided the core of the problem during the whole process, spoiled him without principle, and did not even bear the pressure of the mother on his son's education. I have to say that this father failed very well. It reminded me that when my mother said those things to me in anger, my father was there, but he didn’t say anything to me, just kept indifferent silence. attitude. He just hoped that my mother should finish quickly, and finish quickly. Have you finished talking?

The father said to his son: "We don't want you to blame yourself." In fact, I think the father should say: "What happened there exactly?" As for the blame or not, let the facts speak for themselves. When you need blame, you must not avoid blame because of petting. Because of proper blame, letting the son take responsibility is also part of education and growth.

When the son said indifferently that his sister had lost her eyeballs and had to "suck it up" by herself, the father nodded thoughtfully? ! I K! I think I will slap it. Whether the younger sister can suck it up is her own business, but if you, as your brother, say such indifferent words, then you should be slapped. The mother in the film leaves in anger.

My father just silently wiped his lips with a napkin... I don't think it's all because my mother is a young literary girl. His dad really can't be regarded as a responsible and wise dad.

Finally, I sigh, the little Lori inside is really cured~~

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