Such people have no sense of morality and shame, let alone love. However, they are witty and humorous, and can easily gain the trust of others, but because they cannot feel the responsibility, they cannot maintain a friendly relationship for a long time.
All so-called "education" actually presupposes that the object of education is people who are willing to be socialized or who recognize the existing emotional relationships that maintain the social structure. However, anti-social people do not recognize the basic structure of society, or cannot recognize that the existence of others is just a bargaining chip used by them. After adulthood, most of them will become criminal leaders, shameless politicians or perverted murderers (see a large number of criminal minds). Case).
Because of his family, or mother's relationship, Kevin made a lot of extreme behaviors when he was a minor. But we never know what happened to Kevin in school. For children, school is sometimes even more important than family. Therefore, it is hard to say that the film is a reflection of school education and family education, which also takes the so-called institutionalized education too important. Many people with antisocial personality disorder abuse and kill animals, even their own brothers and sisters, before they are ten years old. Is this really the influence of the school or the education of the parents?
The child and the mother are actually like a chemical reaction between two unidentified substances. You can’t know what happens when two people come into contact with each other: It’s also Kevin’s mother, but she may be another child because she lacks maternal love. Others give more love and become people like social workers.
But both Kevin and his mother believe that some of the so-called evil in Kevin's body must be part of the mother. In the growth of the child, whether it is innate genes or acquired education, the mother occupies the absolute center. . But this central position, in the eyes of feminists, is given by the standardization of society, and it is the standard set by men. They will say that if men are responsible for bringing children from the beginning and women make money outside, the social rules and evaluation system are women. The establishment is also beneficial to women. You can’t use women as tools just because women give birth to children, motherly love is strong and docile, and when a child has a problem, the responsibility of education should be shifted to the woman. Similarly, when we are talking about good and bad, good and evil, we are talking about it within the scope of a certain norm and standardization of society, that is, if a certain behavior deviates from the “normal” norm, it will be Defined as sickness, abnormality and evil. But good and evil in themselves are not equivalent to the framework of modern society in the narrow sense. So some people will resort to religion when they encounter extreme good and evil.
But in the movie, Kevin's mother rejected the religious asylum brought by the missionaries and still used her personal strength and motherhood to fight. The film abandoned the discussion of social education, family and religion, and only focused on Kevin’s mother, but used these things to set a gloomy background for the world. In a gloomy world, a mother lost almost everything. What else can she do?
Maternity is the source of this world, and the world that arises from the source itself has no distinction between good and evil. Even if there is a powerful evil, we have no right to blame this source. But she can still use the most instinctive, strong or weak force to defend herself and the world again and again.
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I don't agree that Kevin is just autistic. How can a teenager who is just autistic or with other psychological disorders kill his father and sister, obviously not feeling the love of others.
The mother came to the construction site in order to avoid the cry of the child. Compared with Kevin's cry, the noise of the construction site was a kind of cleanness. This shows how noisy the child is. This is a manifestation of infancy and many manifestations of childhood. The relationship between him and his mother can’t be explained at all. It can only be said that he has anti-social tendencies. However, anti-social behavior itself is a dynamic and developmental process. It is not possible to say whether he is or not according to a certain standard definition, but there is no doubt that Kevin has psychological obstacles in this area.
This setting actually expands the scope of the movie's discussion beyond family, social education, and good and evil. But besides this, has the director set other broader values, such as religion or nihilism, so he can only focus on his mother.
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The discussion on Kevin here also affirms Kevin’s anti-social tendencies.
Kevin's behavior throughout the book closely resembles that of a sociopath, although reference to this condition is sparse and left mostly up to the reader's imagination. He displays little to no affection or moral responsibility towards his family or community, and commonly distances himself from people to avoid attachment. Kevin seems to regard virtually everyone with contempt and hatred
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