After watching this movie, it seems that we can always see ourselves many years later: a middle-aged man, for the future of his children, running all day in the workplace, family and the world...
Movies with realistic themes have been very popular with audiences in recent years. I think the main reason is that people's real life is really too magical.
It's hard to find a way to deal with our emotions. So a movie about ordinary people, if it happens to make everyone resonate with their own lives. Then it is undoubtedly a compliment to the entire production team.
In the film, the girl's abuse was completely avoidable. Why do you say that? Because when her father sent her across the road from the school gate, there was a scene where her father hurriedly parked the car on the side of the road. I thought it was where my father worked or where my friends lived, but I didn't expect it to be where my father cheated.
Therefore, in order to meet his lover, the father hurriedly put the child on the road near the school, and it was only a short distance away. Since then, he and his daughter have become more and more unfamiliar. Because as a father, he has absolutely no idea what the child is thinking.
As for my father's lover, I didn't feel that there was anything wrong with this third party. Because the heroine's father and mother really have completely lost the necessary conditions and emotional foundation to live together. It's not a pleasant thing for the whole family to keep these two together alive. On the contrary, it was the lover who took care of his father's emotions everywhere, and taking care of his father's family made people feel pity.
After the daughter was violated, the father did not show concern and care from beginning to end, and he was still more concerned about the child's grades. It seems that apart from grades, he can no longer find a topic to get along with his daughter. For the father, returning to Romania with his wife was the most regrettable moment of their lives. But then again, he did change a very small part of the country, such as the lives he saved, the confidants (third parties) he met during treatment. It's just that he only paid attention to the years of regret, and did not focus his life on participating in the changed world later.
The relationship between a father and a daughter is like a daughter fulfilling her father's unfulfilled wish. In fact, it is not the heroine who really wants to leave this stale place, but his father. He endured everything here, and just hoped that his daughter would not repeat the same mistakes. But every generation has a mission for every generation. father's generation. It may still be more about collectivist values. But the education that the daughter receives or the world he lives in emphasizes independent thinking and personal freedom.
The father did not give his daughter the opportunity and space to explore the world. He arranged everything for his daughter, but this kind of flower that grows in the greenhouse is destined to experience difficulties. It is the beginning of suffering. It's like a daughter who is at a loss when faced with something, and doesn't know why, this is the result of his father's own planting. It is even more incomprehensible to interfere with my daughter's adult life after that, but when I see this, I seem to see a copy of each domestic parent...
Perhaps, in any corner of the world, people's education for their children is relatively similar, which means that you always want the best for your child, and you are afraid of what hardships he will suffer. But for parents, if you truly respect your child, then you must try to listen to your child's heart. Because blindly instilling their own adult world rules will inevitably cause distortions to the psychology of children at this stage. Like a father telling his child to be sincere, kind, and honest, but at the same time asking his child to cheat in exams? And then it takes a lot of effort to explain that this is different than it used to be? What's the difference? If everything is said by the mouth of the parents, then the child's worldview must be broken and deformed...
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