How much love can stand scrutiny?

Janice 2021-12-01 08:01:23

How much love can stand scrutiny?

I watched "One Day", a very popular romance film recently.
In fact, it stands to reason that the tone of two people who have been ambiguous for 20 years and finally become a positive result should be quite in line with my taste.
But when he saw Dexter handing Emma a wedding invitation, Emma blessed with a smile and Dexter also responded.
I couldn't bear it anymore: "Nima's, I want to be together when I want to be together. Is it that difficult?"
But then I think about it, in fact, this is the truth of life.
The male protagonist can be scumbag in some respects, life is chaotic, and his girlfriend can change in a frantic manner, and only contact the female protagonist when he is fragile or shocked.
But in fact, when the male protagonist is still concerned about the female lead, otherwise, he will not take the female lead to travel to France to relax when the female lead has just graduated and can only work in a restaurant.

Sometimes it seems to me that the female protagonist does have a kind of sexual attraction to the male protagonist at first, and then the female protagonist gives the male protagonist a sense of psychological security.
This means that no matter how I move forward or toss around, there will always be you waiting for me behind me.
When the male protagonist divides such a relationship very clearly like in "One Day", the ambiguous return is ambiguous, and the other sister is still on the paper, and then married the rich woman, then divorced, and then turned back to the female protagonist, and the two were successful.
We will feel that the male protagonist is not good, and the female protagonist has become a poor spare tire.
And the same relationship between men and women has been ambiguous for many years, in Cai Zhiheng's novel "Whale Girl Pond Boy".
The male lead has been waiting for the female lead all the time, and then finally waited until the female lead had enough toss to return, and the two came to completion.
The difference is that in Cai's novels, the heroine has been studying hard and so on, and has never found other men.
Therefore, we all said that Cai's novels are pure love, which is very difficult in reality.
A drunkenness in a foreign country, one encounter, is enough to derail the story from the ambiguous track of pure love to the romantic wilderness of messy eating and drinking men and women in reality.

If there is friendship between men and women, I believe it.
When it comes to saying that men and women call each other best friends, even people who write pure love novels feel cheating.
Sometimes I admire it. The male lead and the female lead almost did everything. They hugged them to sleep and kissed them. They can also say "We're just friend."
You can say that this is ambiguous. I would rather say that this is Ming Sao.
To quote the original text from my novel "Sheng Hua" to make complaints:


The lead singer on the stage joked to us: "You couple will stay with us to the end?" An
Xin looked at me and waved to the lead singer with red eyes. Said: "We are just buddies..."
Uh... are they just buddies?
I stood up anxiously: "Ah, buddy? Have you ever seen a buddy who has kissed and held hands?"
As soon as I said this, the lead singer who was drinking water choked with laughter. Come out of the water...


well, forget it, the interpretation of the degree of ambiguity is different from the east and the west.

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I’m thinking, in fact, I’m not much better than the hero .
And the thing about love is really nonsense.
Everyone has their own specific circumstances, so you shouldn’t comment on anything you want.
Sometimes I just want not to let people live so humble and love so humble.
It is my weakness to care about other people's eyes.
Sometimes I hope to have a name, and sometimes I hope to be respected.
Instead, it put love in a less important position.

Those who really live happily are either people who are like the male lead, who have experienced a lot.
Either it is a person like the heroine who is persistent all his life.
Swaying, hesitating, looking forward and backward like me, it is really tiring to live.

In the end, anyway, this is still a good movie, and it's worth watching.

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Extended Reading
  • Cesar 2022-03-28 09:01:02

    The photography and scenography are beautiful. It is gratifying that the unrequited unrequited love has finally come to fruition, but after all, it is because the other party is not lucky enough to seek spiritual comfort again and again. What an easy and tragic love model, but the world is often like this, stupidity and resentment go hand in hand, but it is rare to endure for such a long time.

  • Clement 2021-12-01 08:01:23

    What moved me was not such love, but Emma herself. This is her story alone. Beautiful women guide men and this flashy world.

One Day quotes

  • Emma: Whatever happens tomorrow, We've had today. And if we should bump into each other sometime in the future, well that's fine too, we'll be friends.

  • Emma: Whatever happens tomorrow, we had today. I'll always remember it.