She began to understand that he was 100% the best man for her in terms of personality and talent. Even if his opinions and his temper are not exactly the same as hers, he will definitely be able to make her feel good. This combination is beneficial to both parties: the woman is calm and lively, which can make the man feel soft and elegant;
It is a pity that this happy marriage is impossible to achieve. Thousands of lovers all over the world who want to conclude a truly happy marriage have also missed an example to learn from.
——Chapter 50 of Pride and Prejudice
As Mao Jian said, some names are born with the magic of fateful tragedy, like Anna. The name Anna sounds like an unrestrained and passionate thorn bird, and Jane, or Jane, is unpretentious, concise, reliable, pale and thick like a slightly old but clean white handwriting paper. . Jane, representing all the plain and obscure plain women, is almost negligible, as if Jane Eyre or Jane Austen, and more famous names in history, are nothing but unintentional planting willows.
A woman named Jane, whether it is Jane Eyre or Jane Austen, is often born in a poor but noble spirit, with a tenacious and forbearing character, a wise and intelligent mind, and is unique in the vast and long pre-modern society with the pursuit of self-realization as the goal. Even if the process is calm and unassuming, this is the consistent way of life for a woman named Jane, but the final outcome often shows their precious and powerful spiritual world and becomes another pioneer leader of feminism.
They seem to be in an era where women are not allowed to be independent. They are forced by reality and spirituality to be deviant and independent. They are not show-like attitudes. At the end, it is difficult to achieve perfection. Expensive, very hard work.
Watching Becoming Jane didn't really understand until the second time. When Tom Lefroy turned his head and shouted Jane sternly at his daughter, the tears he had been holding back for a long time finally burst out.
There are few records of Tom Lefroy and Jane Austen's affair in the history of letters. In Jane's collection of letters preserved after his death, there are only a few words about Tom Lefroy, but it is enough to make people think. Becoming Jane is a film script based on Austen's six novels, especially "Pride and Prejudice". The interesting thing is that people often speculate on the basis of the author's anecdotes that his writing motives are related to The prototype of the work, but Jane Austen's miserliness towards future generations led them to find another way. The restoration and description of the sparks and waves in Jane Austen's brief 41 years are almost completely re-creation of the details of her novels, while A seemingly perfectly correct but unfounded inference: Their Love Story Was Her Greatest Inspiration constitutes the major premise that underpins the credibility of this entire fictional history.
People can get what they want in this film, whether it's for visual or audible enjoyment, or fascinated by Jane Austen's rhythmic and witty language, or Yu has a glimpse of the secret past of the handed down female writer.
Then a discussion about "bread or love" unfolded vigorously. Affection is desirable. Money is absolutely indispensable. Mrs. Austen's wise words were instantly regarded as classics. The independent women's pursuit of personal wealth and self-realization has thus inexplicably and smoothly found a firm enough level for any form of indifference and injustice. But Austin gave up love in order to keep it. She also did not choose Mr. Wisley, a well-off family member, as her wishful husband. Decades later, the rise to fame and the affectionate and sincere gaze with Tom Lefroy proved that Jane did not want either. The choice of not wanting bread in love is making her have the best of both worlds.
People often choose to read ancient texts in their own context. In fact, the factual contradiction has never changed since Jane Austen's time. Women are as obsessed and anxious as ever to find a partner they can rely on. There is only more chips and space between advancing and retreating, which makes the rules of the game more complicated. . Bread or love, reason or emotion. When we use all our intelligence to rationally measure the conservation of power between the two sides, we will sigh like Mr. Wisley said to Jane: You will never have such a good opportunity again in this life! But if love is the trouble, how do you know what is the rare opportunity or person in your life? For Jane, the contradiction is the conflict between the realistic livelihood and the ideal love. There may be more possibilities for us, but the problem is the same. The best choice based on rational judgment, even if it does not use emotion, It's all tempting enough to make your heart skip a beat, because it's the best chance of a lifetime! If you miss it, you will inevitably feel remorse; and the surging emotions are unstoppable. The judgment made by affection for you is not guaranteed by data calculation and factual evidence. There are too many variable factors and too many variables. No matter how much you pay, be patient. Neither can fill this black hole of doubt. So there is a dilemma, a dilemma.
The reality is always a fact that is forcing people to face, even if there is a contradiction, the living person must be forced to make a choice. Jane said goodbye to Tom Lefroy with tears in her eyes and said goodbye to Tom Lefroy, which made many spectators weep. Their feelings, because of the alternation of hope and hopelessness, became even more unforgettable in this quiet and peaceful remote village. After a tear of sympathy, we can't help but remember how splendid the name of her later generations is, so for us of money worship and materialism, under the pomegranate skirt of one of the greatest British female writers, we bowed our heads and picked up what we had. The answers and affirmations we need show how noble and self-sacrificing we are.
Do we really understand how much Jane Austen regrets the sacrifice of this relationship, but how to burn those letters with Tom Lefroy, write so many shadows of them, but so light and beautiful ending. And for what reason, she still firmly rejected Mr. Wisley's proposal and friendship. Jane, who returned from the half-way of the elopement, was calmer and more beautiful than before. On the edge of the riverbank, she spoke lightly about her future plans and plans, living with a pen, laughing at the spread that devoured her all that morning The despair is the most moving. We unearthed Jane Austen's age-old past to satisfy the desire to spy on the privacy, and still do not understand the real her.
--But if our love destroys your family, it will destroy
itself --But if our love destroys your family, it will destroy itself
--Truth
...Made from contradiction
-- But it must come with a smile--But
it must come with a smile
--Or
else I shall count it as false and we shall have had no love at all.
The contradiction of reality There are always two iron plates, which clamp down on us until our ideals and spirits are completely destroyed, but we have no choice but to face them with a smile. The beginning of this story is always bad, and the process may be even worse, but in the end they always get a happy ending because of their hard work, even if we have to reluctantly accept that the ending is often a different ending. In the end, if regret and sadness keep us from extricating ourselves, we must still face the facts, keep smiling, and put everything on the pen, because:
Irony is the bringing together of contradictory truths to make out of the contradiction a new truth with a laugh or a smile, and I confess that a truth must come with one or the other, or I account it as false and a denial of the very nature of humanity itself. (Irony is the use of contradictory facts to create new self-contradictory facts to make people laugh, of course I admit that facts must be stated one by one, otherwise it is a bondage and denial of human nature.)
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