This is a typical Japanese movie. The picture is comfortable and leisurely, but it doesn't feel like there is no content or the rhythm is too slow. Although the theme is father and son, as a mother, I was still moved to tears.
The story is very simple and cliché: On the eve of the Nonomiya family's child Keita, it was discovered that it was not their biological son, but the Ryujin of the Saimu family, who was replaced by the nurse at the hospital at that time. This fact brought an unparalleled shock to both owners.
Although the story is conventional, the film is not conventional. I don't understand the analysis of shooting techniques and other technical aspects, I can only start from my own feelings.
Is life and nurture more important?
In the process of watching the movie, I asked myself many times, if I find that the child I have been raising is not my own, am I more inclined to switch or not to switch?
The film is very restrained in expressing this tangled process, probably because it is from the perspective of the father. In accordance with the requirements of men, he suppressed his emotions in his heart. There are few moments for a lot of emotional catharsis. Compared with majesty, compared with his own wishes and needs, he cared more, exerted more force, and even used all his strength in his social responsibilities. As he himself said: there are jobs that only you can do.
"Father is also a job that no one can replace!" Xiongda could only reply to him. However, his expression is also hesitant and wavering, after all, from a social point of view, he is not successful, far from many.
Many initially chose blood.
Men are probably very fanatical about passing on their genes, which is also engraved in their genes. Women are more concerned with emotions.
The 6-year relationship and emotional support and interaction are bound to be indelible. But thinking of another child who had lived in his womb for 10 months, it was also difficult to choose. But the so-called own genes, probably will be ranked at the back.
But in the end, it was still no match for the feelings of being a father over the years and welcomed back Qing Duo.
Birth and nourishment should never be separated.
Those mistakes that split them can only be slowly made up and restored.
After thinking about it for a long time, the only solution I can think of is to raise a child, but the two families walk closely and let them get along like brothers.
Certainly not complete.
Kyodo
Is a very well-behaved child.
Although I don't like the piano, I still make myself practice hard.
Very polite.
Will tell a little lie for admission.
He is more like an adult who needs to take social responsibilities than a wanton child.
Painful, pitiful.
This kind of character is more like an adoptive father than his biological parents.
many
Is a standard successful "social person".
His emotions are restrained. Whether for parents, children or wives.
His world is always moving forward, he rarely cares about the surrounding things, and rarely stops to look at the scenery.
The occurrence of such an accident can make him slow down and appreciate the feeling of life.
Saiki's house
Not a successful family in any sense.
The attitude towards children is also more of a stocking.
Growing up in such a home, Liu Jing had more childhood fun and less reserves for the future.
must be ok? must be bad?
At least, Liu Qing is very happy at the Saimu family, and Keita prefers the Nonomiya family.
What suits you is the best.
The best atmosphere in a family is when everyone is comfortable. There is no need for parents to raise their children in a way that makes them uncomfortable. If you don't like classical music, either you like it too, or don't force your kids to like it.
Of course, if he likes it spontaneously, everyone is very happy~
There's just no need to make everyone miserable.
If you want your child to reach the heights, parents need to let themselves reach and surpass.
The process of parenting is also the process of growing up. It can also better look back on the experience of growing up and get along better with their parents.
No child is perfect, no parent is perfect, and no family is perfect.
But we can all be very happy.
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