When faced with an irreversible situation, I finally went to the pastor from hesitation, and the pastor's advice was very different from what I thought. Then, in the second sentence, he said to me: think about it, once you separate, there will be a hole in your heart for the rest of your life. Then, he started to ask me what happened, and said nothing in the middle. At the end, he emphasized the above sentence to me again, and then recommended this movie to me.
At that time, it was difficult for me to calm down and read it, but after returning home, I managed to find resources as much as possible. Maybe, this may be the difference between me and the protagonist Caleb. When Caleb couldn't go on, he talked to his father and accepted his father's encouragement. And I, in that mood, didn't hire a pastor to continue communicating, so I completely digested it myself. The final result is predictable.
To this day, I have finished watching this film calmly, and maybe it is the beginning of my life that I can truly face again and face my own breach calmly. In fact, this film is also about how to face life, whether to give up and pretend to be an ostrich, or to try my best to change myself. How to change? Why sometimes the so-called change can not last even a week? Because of the lack of a sense of mission and the lack of urgency for one's own life.
Why is it missing? Because I don't know. Just like Caleb couldn't understand love at first, and perfunctory. Just like I don't understand love, love is not about giving flowers or cooking meals, love in Christ is patient and kind, not jealous, not boastful, not arrogant, not shy, Do not seek your own; do not be provoked, do not reckon wrong, do not rejoice in iniquity but rejoice in the truth, bear all things, believe all things, hope all things, endure all things, love never fails. It's a very high standard, but it's coveted. It is difficult to do it by yourself.
I don't know my own life either, just living by and wasting a lot of time. Faced with his own nothingness, he was finally impatient, then impatient, and then lost.
Thank God He finally brought me back. I finally understood what the pastor and co-workers told me, that the harmony of the marriage relationship is based on the close relationship with God.
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