The desire for change is sometimes almost equal to the desire for a whole life. Jude longs for the fate of his peasant workers to become a scholar, Sue longs for a freer and more independent life, and together they long for a love they shouldn't have.
However, change is always accompanied by painful sacrifice, and the end is always nine deaths, and it is difficult to seek a lifetime. Jude can't change his origin, Sue can't change being a woman, and they can't make their love complete.
But the scenery or the wind and frost along the way is too embarrassing. What is it that makes them unable to change? Does natural blood really nail people in place?
When they finally separated, the three children left, and Jude's little boy with his ex-wife killed Sue's two children and then committed suicide. When JUDE found a job and was full of joy thinking that everything was going to get better, they had to send all their children away. And Sue's entire belief in love collapsed at this moment, "Your child killed my child"
This is the saddest part, it makes Sue rethink everything, the original social rules, even their love, when Jude asks her if you still love me, she can only say that you always knew, Then walked away without looking back.
But is the source of all this really their wrong love? Or Jude's child with his ex-wife? Or the seduction of Jude's ex-wife? It's like a butterfly effect. From the beginning of the script, they can't choose to live calmly.
Jude has been struggling with the matter of going to college. Apart from studying, he is surrounded by only workers who work together, so Sue is the only light in his life. He really believes that Sue is smart and literate, at least one close to him The woman who dreams of college is completely different from the wife who is skilled in killing pigs. If Jude really succeeds in getting into college, maybe he will meet a lot of women who are like college in his heart. However, there is no college, there is no other woman, only Sue.
Later, Jude was forced to make a living, working various odd jobs, selling small odds and ends in the market, accepting the ruthless ridicule of his ex-wife, and facing all kinds of contempt from the world, an unmarried man and woman gave birth to two children. In such a situation, how much energy do they have to care about their children?
The recurring feature in the film is that the eldest son is caring for his younger siblings, and on the day they die, the youngest boy is just a baby and left at home. The eldest son was only 8 years old, and he was always abandoned. When he was a child, he was thrown by his biological mother to his grandparents. Later, they didn't want to care, and then he was thrown to a father he didn't know. The lives of two left children. It's not hard to understand why he asked why he wanted to have children, and maybe he also meant why he had to give birth to children after they were born.
If Jude and Sue's life can be a little better, they can both take a little time to take care of the children and accompany the children, will the tragedy not happen? First of all, their economic conditions do not allow them to give more time and energy to their children. They work hard for a ration, how can they take care of a child's keenness? Secondly, their unhappy family made them ignore the importance of family companionship.
People, at the moment of birth, many things are fixed, your parents, your family, your education, your environment. They have a lot of good, at the same time, they also have a lot of flaws.
Throughout our lives, we all want to make that little change, and even if it doesn't happen, we won't stop.
Always love, keep trying, keep changing!
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