My parents are the eldest in the family, and they are not highly educated. Therefore, they are used to "solving problems" in life and lack empathy. So, growing up, I often had a feeling of being alone. There are many things that I know is wrong, but I don't know how to do it right; sometimes I feel a little owed or excessive, but it's just right, I don't know; Saying "to do things too seriously", but how can I be fooled, perfunctory, or focus on the big and let go of the small, I don't know... There are a lot of things, and when someone else does this, I realize, ah ! You can still do this! This lack of common sense in dealing with people is the result of my being cultivated by such parents: they only have the ability to tell me what not to do, but they do not have the time, energy and ability to guide me to do what I want, so they can only simply and rudely. Force me to achieve a result they need. I understand, so I don't blame it, I can only accept it. My interpersonal relationship has always been very simple, only two or three confidants, and the rest of the people have come and gone, becoming passers-by in my life. I am getting middle-aged, and my friends are all old and young, and no one cares to share with me the details of sharing analysis or solving my worries. Therefore, whenever I encounter a problem, I will feel that I am in a narrow place. The dark alley, like the dark map of some games, has to pass this level by myself, and the bright range of the dark alley can be larger. Before that, I can only explore by luck. Books and movies are my lifelong mentors and friends, and I often use other people's stories to help me out. They are a light in my dark alley that I can get out of every time. And that's what really touched me about this movie. It makes me keep sighing, modern society is really good, there are always people expressing their own life insights, and you can always get a little inspiration from other people's stories. This story will always give some comfort to those who lost their parents when they were young, and it will always give some relief to those who "let go". I even got a reassuring remark from it: it’s okay if you are angry. In the future, when you think back to today and regret not talking to me because you were too angry, you have to remember, it’s okay, I understand, you I know everything I want to say, you don't need to say I know. I wish someone would say something like this to me: I understand that you are angry because you are too scared, you shout because you want to be heard, you fall because you are too powerless... I understand that you want to love but you are afraid of being hurt, you want to bear and bear Don't move, want to get rid of, want to stay, want to be hugged, forgiven, forgiven, recognized, you want others to treat you as you treat them. I understand your kindness, your predicament, your burden, and I see your advantages Point, your flash, your bravery. I want to be accepted, respected, and loved. But this is what I want to regret after treating my daughter simply and rudely when I was tired again and again. This movie gave me a more precise expression. Fortunately, every dark alley has an end, and even if no one comes to hold my hand, books and movies always light my way.
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