I came from a domestic variety show. I watched 3 episodes of why you are so good-looking. I thought it was good. I also want it, and I concluded three points: 1. Makeup 2. Dress up 3. The place to live should be beautiful. Later, I accidentally read an article written by Luo Serenity, criticizing this program for exporting female stereotypes to the society. Make up, dress beautifully, take care of everything, take care of family, balance career, and take into account beauty and beauty. ability. I feel ashamed. As a 3-year master of communication, even the research direction is consumer society, and I will accept this concept by default in the process of continuously integrating into the society. Obviously, I am also suspicious of such a thing in my heart, I have been looking for myself, but I have been confused. There are too many voices in my heart, and I don't know which one is the real voice in my heart.
Returning to the show itself, they really found those people who were trapped in a "weird circle" and conducted in-depth exchanges. On the surface, they were changing their appearances. Discover the bright spots on each guest and teach students in accordance with their aptitude. In fact, I found that many people, including myself, are too easy to stay in the comfort zone, and too easy to be afraid of imagining external voices. Every step you take is afraid of the words in this society. People in their 30s who live in their parents' homes, those who have always lived in grandma's homes, middle-aged people who are overwhelmed by the burdens of life, have a variety of life situations, and I can see a glimpse of Ni. They lead the guests to find self-confidence, and also lead them to find the courage to live seriously, and then hide the child in their hearts, integrate into the society like an adult, and still retain their characteristics.
I sometimes wonder, what do people really want in life? Dressing yourself up and decorating your living environment are all symbols of serious living. They encourage everyone to show their beautiful face, yes, "beautiful", even if you are fat and your face is full of shyness and shyness, they will still find your beauty. Showing one's character, occupation, and one's own characteristics is the feeling of being oneself earnestly and courageously throughout. And why you are so good-looking, it only involves your appearance, as if you don't have a good figure, don't wear makeup, and don't take care of your family, you are out of tune with this society.
This variety show is very healing. While giving you confidence in life, tell yourself that you are vulnerable in your heart, a child who has not grown up, it is not unusual, you are not alone.
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