It is indeed a very realistic movie that seems to be able to see the anxiety of his future middle age.
Brad seems to be each of us in the future, silently accepting our mediocrity, but not willing to be mediocre. He can't even imagine that the uncertainty of his son Troy's life and future will make people fall into endless wild thoughts.
He loves his wife Melanie's idealism, but regrets her contentment. But ordinary life is full of instability and impossibility, and it is difficult for ordinary people to control the pace of their lives. Everyone wants to become a superhero in the family and longs to be the umbrella of the family, but many times we still feel that we are powerless to some changes, and the feeling of being overwhelmed and lacking in strength is unpleasant, but it is indeed the life of every ordinary person. normal.
When Brad was in a bar talking to girls about his failed career choices and his past, he suddenly felt that everyone was not pityed for their past.
"I think you're lucky, you're 50 years old, and you think the world should turn for you."
Come to think of it, people who haven't experienced hardships will always be upset by some insignificant things, but they can't get out of it. And those who have experienced the pain in the world are more able to break through some of the worldly shackles. It's a bit ironic, but it's real life. People are always unable to face up to what they have, and desire to get what they do not have, and worry about it.
Middle-aged people always think very realistically, which makes young teenagers feel weird. Middle-aged people always want to show off their achievements and win the respect of others, but they forget their original intentions. This is probably the direction most people can't resist in their entire lives. Every family has its own unspeakable pain and troubles. People always envy the glitter of others, but forget that they are sometimes the stars in the eyes of others. "Old friends are important."
How many years will it take for us to understand this sentence. Many times, my intuition creates many misunderstandings, and misunderstandings can alienate people. People with high aura don't understand how much harm it will cause to ignore people with low aura, while people with low aura will focus on their emotions and feelings, and this is the most twisted place. It is difficult for people who are not in a circle or a level to become close friends, which is also the origin of many contradictions. The so-called struggle is that people are fighting against their own emotions. We love the world, but we cannot fully own the world. If we understand this, people may not have too many obsessions and troubles. "I still love this world." I hope that I can also say this to myself when I am middle-aged. Maybe, at that time, I will not let myself tear every day. The ending was really good, thought provoking, and brought tears to my eyes. We are still alive and have a great future. Brad: "I worry about people looking at me and thinking I'm a failure." Troy: "They don't remember because everyone thinks about themselves. You know, they don't care. The only thing you need The person who cares about opinions is me, and I love you." Your family is always the most important, focus on the moment, live well, every day.
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