Is this General Tso's chicken? This is the unique culture of China!

Stacy 2022-03-22 09:02:17

"Don't Tell Her": 7 points Recommended crowd: overseas Chinese, Chinese

This film gives me the greatest feeling of comfort. This kind of film showing the difference between Chinese and Western cultures rarely does not have much curiosity about oriental culture. If you want to compare a movie, it should be Ang Lee's "The Wedding Banquet", both of which used weddings to express the uniqueness of traditional Chinese culture.

The director Wang Ziyi's performance in this film is not at all like the Chinese who grew up in the United States, and the temperament of the film is more like a Chinese independent film. This film cleverly uses the perspective of a loved one suffering from cancer to interpret the differences between China and the West. Cancer is a very serious matter in any country, and the views on cancer on both sides are the biggest conflict in the film.

What's interesting is that when we thought that a theme like cancer would make people on both sides develop fierce conflicts, the director used a very life-like form to resolve this conflict. Life is also the biggest advantage of this movie. Those soliciting customers in front of the airport, the men and women playing mahjong in the room, the family's conversation around a table, and the waiters doing nothing at the wedding, all these details are deepened. The reality of the story.

The film essentially tells the story of Chinese people who are overseas and find their roots. The vast majority of overseas Chinese are troubled by their identity. They have yellow skin and Chinese names, but they are very unfamiliar with their hometown. This kind of confusion is brought out step by step by the protagonist biliy. The final method used in the film is to let the protagonist accept the special culture of China little by little. In the end, the concealment from the grandmother is, in a sense, choosing to favor the Chinese culture. The final ending is also very intriguing. Biliy stands on the street in the United States where people come and go, and looks extraordinarily lonely, which exactly represents the local environment of overseas Chinese.

If this film can dig deeper into the identity of Chinese Americans, I believe it will be more profound. At present, I personally think that the biggest problem is that the handling of many places is too superficial, and the emotions of many characters are directly expressed by the characters, while the Chinese are a very implicit ethnic group, and many lines are repeated over and over again, which is very unChinese. , to give the simplest example, the controversial topic about the Chinese at the dinner table, the topic was very thoughtful, but it was too straightforward. The Chinese happen to be the most respectable people, especially in front of relatives and friends. Be more restrained.

This film has won a high reputation in the United States, and the box office is also good enough. The appearance of such a film has a certain positive effect on all Chinese. Last year's "Crazy Rich Asians" was one, and this year's "Don't Tell Her" is also one. I hope that there will be more and more Chinese films like this in the future, and they will open up a world in the world.

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  • Colin 2021-12-28 08:02:14

    3.5 As a Chinese American director's work, China under the lens is already closer to our image, but the story, characterization and narration techniques are still slightly old-fashioned, and foreigners may understand the cultural differences inside. With a smile, Chinese-speaking audiences will inevitably feel that they have piled up all kinds of slurs. But it’s still better than sincere feelings, and sincere emotions in the movie will be moving.

  • Vivien 2022-03-24 09:02:44

    I can't be more angry after watching it. The director doesn't know where the superiority comes from. Please do research before black Chinese people, don't shoot so stereotype! From beginning to end, I was deliberately hypocritical. If I really want to photograph the collision of Chinese and American cultures, please take a good look at it. Don’t shut the door and take it for granted.

The Farewell quotes

  • Billi: You know, one of the few good memories of my childhood were those summers at Nai Nais's. They had that garden, Ye Ye and I would catch dragonflies. And then we just moved to the States. Everything was different. Everyone was gone. And it was just the three of us.

    Jian: I know it was hard. It was hard for us too.

    Billi: I wanted to believe that it was a good thing, but all I saw was fear in your eyes. And I was confused and scared constantly because you never told me what was going on. And then Ye Ye died. You didn't even tell me he was sick. So it felt like he just vanished suddenly. And you wouldn't even let me go to his funeral.

    Jian: You were at school. We didn't want you to miss school. We did what we thought was best for you.

    Billi: But I never saw him again. And every time I came back to China, he just... he just wasn't there anymore. And I come back and he's just gone. The house is gone, A Die's gone, our Beijing home is gone and soon she'll be gone too.

  • Billi: [frustrated] Are you going to tell Nai Nai?

    Haiyan: I can't, Billi. I won't go against my family.

    Uncle Haibin: Billi, there are things you misunderstand. You guys moved to the West long ago. You think one's life belongs to oneself. But that's the difference between the East and the West. In the East, a person's life is part of a whole. Family. Society.

    Uncle Haibin: You want to tell Nai Nai the truth, because you're afraid to take the responsibility for her. Because it's too big of a burden. If you tell her, then you don't have to feel guilty. We're not telling Nai Nai because it's our duty to carry this emotional burden for her.