Either create or die.
People always lose something unconsciously, the ability to be moved, the right to be childish, or the enthusiasm full of hope... Everyone's point is different, but the feeling is so similar, Unforgettable. So this may be the reason why "Old Boy" is so heartbreaking, the nostalgia of youth movies that have been selling for a long time.
At first I didn't think this movie had anything in common with me. A former talented female architect, nearly 40 years old, a housewife, insomnia and restless... These words seem to have nothing to do with me, I am neither a genius, nor a middle-aged person, and I have no plans to become a housewife. But I can't tell what it feels like, maybe it's the kind of long-standing depression and self-confusion that makes me familiar and kind. Demon's frowns and smiles in this movie, all kinds of broken moments and incomprehensible points make me feel very appropriate, I don't feel the slightest bit of her hypocrisy, the forbearance and ignition of every emotion make me feel It feels appropriate, just natural.
In the beginning, everything went very smoothly. I was young and promising, and I had a good harvest in both career and love. I was like the chosen person. I will do everything I hope to do. Arrogance, arrogance, and even loneliness can be said to be the unique temperament of successful people. You see, the world is so ironic. In the beginning, Bernadette was bright. Everyone thought she was very dazzling. She may not realize that because she is in the pleasure of work and the nourishment of love, people will become simple and innocent. , full of hope for the future where everything will be as it is now, or even better. But that's how life is, there are all kinds of nasties. There will always be people who are jealous of your talent, insulting or eroding in various ways, in short, they just don't want to make you feel better. Is it wrong to escape at this time? Everyone has a variety of answers to this question, so I won't repeat them here.
Going back to the family looks like it's the way to go for everyone who goes from teenage to woman, no one says, well, I can totally put my work first and my kids second, no, reality Tell us that women seem bound to pay more than men. At this time, the weakness of human nature begins to appear, and the law of diminishing marginal efficiency seems to apply in this regard. Gradually, you find that no one cares about your dedication to your family anymore, from the initial thanks to the habit, the debt to the due. You see, people are such forgetful animals, always forgetting their commitments at that time and the feelings that came with them. The scene in the movie where my husband is on the opposite side and accusing Bernadette really makes me sick. Why do people always tend to believe the voices of the outside world, rather than listen to the voices of the parties involved? Why do you choose to support others when I need you the most?
I always feel that the greatest meaning of a partner to human beings is not in the material but in the soul. I don't think that the material life of two people will definitely improve much compared to when they were single. In fact, no, the work efficiency of the single period will be higher, more free, and more free and easy to live. But why do humans still choose to find someone to spend the rest of their life with? Because I hope that when I am not understood by everyone, you understand me, you know the distress and anxiety in my heart, and you know that I am misunderstood and slandered. I'm not as bad as everyone says, I may just not like talking, I'm not good at explaining, and I'm too lazy to deal with interpersonal relationships. I may just need an outlet for my emotions, a place where I can release my strong vitality. How can you say that I am useless like them? Obviously you know some of my fragile and indescribable points, why do you make it public to make me sad? Why, why?
So Bernadette ran away, not knowing how to deal with it all, feeling as if she was betrayed by people all over the world, she went to the South Pole by herself, and was at peace after seeing the quiet and peaceful scene of the snow. Luckily, the next design opportunity was found here, and she was ignited again. She's back to where she was when she was working, she's excited, she can leave her safety behind, she's giving everything she can to get this design opportunity. This is Bernadette~ It's the constant thing in her bones, the source of her charm, this is her right direction and a decent life trajectory~ How can you let her do things she doesn't like and keep going scold her?
I really love Bernadette like this, I love her, I love her cherishing the touching and beautiful life that I don’t know how many times, I love her enthusiasm and enthusiasm for her work, I love her creative charm and stubbornness. Love her who has never been smoothed out by life from beginning to end. How can you forget yourself? How can this be the case? Life can't always say "that's it", it's really too inferior. We can compromise, but it's really boring to compromise for a long time. Life is inherently boring, and it's even more boring if you follow it. We, born as human beings, are to create, to create your own miracle, which is different from others. The ups and downs, the ups and downs, the ups and downs, the ups and downs, all belong to you. No one else is qualified to judge. You always know what's right and what's wrong, be firm, move in the direction you feel is right, and follow your heart's choice. Bernadette, it's time, it's time to come back.
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