It's been a long time since I read it, and I haven't had time to write. Before I went on vacation, there were too many things to do. Story 1, a lot of people say they are very moved, but I think it's okay, Maybe it's not easy to accompany your opposite-sex friends silently like this now. Story 2, find soulmate, but I am a little pessimistic about this now, because even if two people feel that each other is very compatible with themselves in every way, will they still think so after living together for a long time? I think it's an unknown. Story 3, she acted very well, but because I didn't have this experience, I felt just average. Story 4, a lot of people don't like it, or don't feel it, but I think it's not bad. In a long-term marriage or partnership, a very common problem is to exclude the other party from your own activities or thoughts. Although two people seem to be together every day, they are like strangers, cuz everyone may have limited communication attempts. , did not get the expected response from the other party, so simply gave up communication and was happy to live in his own world. The scene of playing tennis inside is a little bit similar to my own situation. I played tennis in college for four years, the level was average, but I was very happy, because I played with my brothers who were much better than me (much older than me), so the ball they gave me fell The point is very comfortable, it doesn't require me to run around, and it can be pulled for a long time (my strength is good). Later, I played tennis with my family Will. He was a novice, and my level was not good enough to give him a good placement. The placement he gave me was even worse, so I stopped playing with him later, too tired? ? It takes two people to cooperate well in everything in order to persevere. The fifth story is my favorite out of the 8 stories, because it basically tells what most younger people really think about making friends these days. Everyone is afraid that others will hurt themselves, and sometimes they are afraid that their truth will scare others away, so they cover themselves layer by layer, but we are actually more cute and stronger than we imagined. Facing yourself and others truthfully, it seems hard, but it is actually easy. The sixth story, in my opinion, is actually a very popular one about informed consent in sex recently. The first thing I want to say is the normal boys I'm discussing (excluding scum and beasts!). I very much agree that sex needs to be agreed by both parties, but this matter does not distinguish between men and women. A lot of discussions are from the standpoint of girls, which is no problem. After all, girls are physically and psychologically weaker. However, each case is actually different. I think the number of normal ordinary boys is still the majority. I often hear a saying, ' I can sao, but you can't disturb! ' This sentence is actually fine, but when you think about it, it still seems a little wrong. yes, you have the right to dress or act like a slut, but do other people have the right to judge? Especially if you are showing it publicly? Of course, you can hate other people's comments, you can fight back and even seek legal help, but do other people also have the right to speak, such as discussion on a case-by-case basis (not including the kind of malicious slander of course) ? If the boys and girls already know each other and are in contact with each other, of course, boys must not do anything out of the ordinary without the girls' consent, but should girls at least give others a hint or say that they are fun and don't want to do anything? For example, a girl likes a boy very much, and then the boy does everything between lovers, the girl thinks he likes her, but in the end the boy says that he was just playing, he didn't think about it, and he didn't plan to be with her. what happened? Then how will the girls feel at this time? In the story, the little girl, because the uncle satisfied her fantasy about her father, she approached him and liked to be with him, but isn't this her wishful thinking? How likely is it that a boy, no matter his age, is close to you for a pure purpose? And at the beginning, I didn't tell others about my feelings. At the same time, is it not a lover's behavior to be intimate with him? As a boy, his physiological characteristics will be more impulsive than girls, so to be fair, should you give him a little hint or even make it clear that he likes you, at least others will not be too impulsive. It's not that I want to give boys impulsive power, but to give others a little more respect (in fact, to myself), and at least give others a fair chance. In the story, the girl took the gift from the uncle very easily. I don't want to talk about her material desires, but to think about whether you should think about it a little when you accept gifts from others. There are very generous and casual gift-givers in this world, but most people give gifts for a reason, especially expensive ones. In addition to parents, relatives, siblings, good friends, partners (boyfriends), sometimes you can be a little bit out of line. Do you need to think about other people's precious gifts before you accept them, how can you give them back to others? The seventh story reminds me of a CBC documentary I watched before. They interviewed several homeless people about why they were doing it and whether it could help them get back to normal life. One of them was a girl, probably in her early 20s, from a normal family. She seemed to be angry with her parents, so she ran away from home and kept wandering. Later they helped her find her parents, eased the relationship, and the girl went home. But soon, she came out and wandered by herself. She said that she was used to this kind of life and couldn't stay in a fixed place. btw, I have met a lot of homeless people in Montreal, many of them are very young boys, and they are very good-looking! The eighth story, my feeling is that no matter who we lose in our life, we have to rely on ourselves to live the life strong (of course, if you choose to give up, it is no problem), so keep yourself well in all aspects, maybe far away There will also be someone who loves you and cherishes you!
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