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WAIT A MINUTE!!! The title of Big Little Lies is almost the same as this one! Unidentified deceased and flashback techniques, ethnic police officers with unidentified smiles, and high-end residential backgrounds by the sea are almost the same! I've watched two episodes so far, and the rhythm is a bit slow, all relying on pornographic edge balls to hang the audience. Interestingly, you will find that when the male and female protagonists recall the relationship between the two, they imagine the other party as the active, enthusiastic, and sexually suggestive party, while they are timid, shy, and erratic. I can't help but think of the impressive passer-by female character in the swimming pool at the beginning of the first episode. She was active and enthusiastic. After learning that the male protagonist was married, she was polite and magnanimous.
Seeing the sixth episode is finally a little exciting: the loneliness of idyllic life, the collision of tradition and modernity, disputes between small town families, drug trafficking, intentional murder, and extramarital affairs are intertwined and unfold slowly. ——Episode 7 is also good! Both sides were cleanly (by) exposed about the derailment, and there was no dog-blood entanglement between the two. ——Well, I was slapped in the face when I saw the ninth episode. The two of them got together again inexplicably at Christmas. I am still in the master bedroom of Noah's house? ? ? ? ? ? Noah, the invincible scumbag in the universe, feels sorry for Cole, who is a bit violent and arbitrary, but at least caring for his family... The end of the ninth episode! OMG! Dog blood, really dog blood. And it was Alison's brother-in-law, the deceased Scott, who made Noah's eldest daughter pregnant. It's worthy of HBO and showtime. ——WAIT A MINUTE!!!!!!! Why is the beginning of episode 10? To write the female character of the passerby in the swimming pool I mentioned earlier like this? The front foot said that he cheated on the male protagonist after he was engaged? I really understand that the Rickandmorty S4E3 grandpa who came out yesterday satirized showtime and HBO. This may be the ultimate form of dog-blood pornography: the plot twists, the essence of packaging literature and art, and the target audience is biased towards men (OK, I admit that men who often swim It's sexy but please be in moderation). ——! ! ! I can't accept that the first season ends without solving any problems! ! ! But having said that, isn't that what you want to shoot in a dog blood drama? You can shoot it as long as you have ratings... I'll still watch limited dramas in the future. Dancing with shackles (limited time) is the real thing. the art of.
While it would seem ridiculous to discuss the show seriously, it's not impossible to review some of the common issues that Hollywood often discusses.
1. What does infidelity mean to marriage, or if you ask it in a trendy way in the past two years, what kind of dilemma does an open marriage face? On the one hand, it increases the uncertainty of the marital relationship, just like the classic quarrel line "before I thought we were xxx, now it seems that we are just two fools who don't know how to solve the problem", if two people are not interested in "our relationship" The understanding of what state is” is slightly out of sync, which will instantly magnify the uncertainty and sense of crisis. At the same time, the institution of marriage was born to maintain the stability and order of a certain relationship, and this cognition is embedded in our subconscious. But frankly speaking, two people are two completely different individuals, and the interaction between them must be full of uncertainty, especially in modern society, marriage relationship does not mean possession (this may be counted as my opposition to economic imperialism) A point), learning to accept and deal with uncertainty is inevitable. On the other hand, no matter what kind of marriage, in essence, it needs to be separated from marriage and love. The most vulgar thing about this show is that it lets the two cheaters talk about love (since it's a dog-blood-scale drama, let's just talk about sex and not talk about love), and they bundle love with monogamous loyalty, and It's simply two things. There are feelings and sparks between the male and female protagonists, but they are also inseparable from many factors such as desire, restlessness, escapism and so on. Wake up, thinking that a person is not love at all, there is no such social fact of love in this world. It is not love that makes people decide who to marry, but "favorable feelings" and "fitness" - arousing interest, and then paying attention, generating good feelings, and after interacting, it is found that they are suitable for living together and supporting each other, so they enter marriage to fight against eternal loneliness and create a society. coupling. Marriage is a social existence, and love is a spiritual illusion; marriage is based on the instinct of connection, and love is based on the fantasy of masturbation; marriage has nothing to do with sex, and love may exist. Yes, marriage is not only about love but also about sex - of course most people will choose a sexual relationship, but marriage should never be dependent on a relationship - yes, I am trying to change the sexual relationship from the marriage relationship Liberation, or the liberation of the marriage relationship from the sexual relationship, works either way. (Well, as I write, I also recognize myself better...) All in all, I finally want to say that simply opposing monogamy may not be a solution to the contradiction between human nature and social rules. The correct direction is enough, because the premise is to recognize the essence of the above two points, and then realize the limitations of the concept of "derailment" itself. The only problem is that everyone's cognition is out of sync.
2. Is it possible for couples who are facing the pain of bereavement to continue their journey? There are too many film and television works on the subject, such as "Rabbit Hole", but it seems that there are not many domestically produced ones. The answers given by most of the discussions are pessimistic and difficult for me to understand, which is why I can't understand why Alison in the center can't go back to her husband when it's all over.
3. What kind of relationship do mothers and daughters share? In this play, Alison hates her mother very much, but she has to admit that her mother is the one who knows her best and the first choice when she is desperate; Helen said that she always hoped that she would not marry someone like her A person like her father did not expect to end up marrying someone like her mother. Perhaps no matter how much we struggle to get rid of the influence of our parents on us, it is ultimately impossible. In short, the Hollywood film and television industry generally agrees that the relationship between mother and daughter is a special attachment and influence, and no matter how quarrel is, it is indestructible. They understand the father-son relationship often from the perspectives of example, worship, affirmation, unspoken contradictions, misunderstandings, etc.
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